My bf of three months is a strange fellow
He is always always busy so we hardly talk for for five ten mins each day and sometimes not at all. He returns my calls,fine and calls me too. But his calls are always short. Then when I am sure he is seeing someone else or something else is wrong, he would call up and sound so vulnerable and 'in love'. He never makes any plans to meet, when i make plans, he usually obliges. WHAT IS HAPPENING HERE.. How can anyone every be sooo busy!!
2007-01-14 04:30:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What kind of work does he do? Does he run his own business? Is he on a project that has a deadline or he's into research?
It can happen - some people are very busy with their work. Just be thankful that he obliges; other will give you excuses.
I know of a married person whose husband is doing research. They've been married for a very long time. He lets his wife go out on her own and even asks friends to take her out. Can you imagine that?
If you don't want to be in this relationship because you want more, then move on.
2007-01-14 04:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds to me that maybe he is just not ready for a relationship.or maybe you are expecting to much. why do you feel you need to talk to him every day? to me that's a little over board. don't call him for a few days, see if he calls you, then if and when he does tell him that you want to do something and that you want him to plan it. some guys need a little nudge. but if he don't call you after a few days then i would call him and tell him that it is not working out. that you need a boyfriend that wants to spend time with you. don't put to much into the short phone calls. some people just don't like talking on the phone.
2007-01-14 12:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you are not happy so why waste time wondering find you a man that wants to spend time with you and is all that you want not some butt head that wants to be busy all the time.
2007-01-14 12:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by faithfullyyours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is seeing someone else....have you ever asked him what's wrong? Maybe you guys need to go to couples therepy and get him to open up. Maybe he's stressed out with work or maybe he's getting tired of you (no offense).
Good luck and rememeber...there's always a better guy for you if he did cheat on you =D
2007-01-14 12:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by confuzed_smiles 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its sound as if you are being used as a booty call and he has someone eles its time to find someone who appreciate you go find some one who cant wait to be with you and call you up and talk all night you dont need this jack ***
2007-01-14 12:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.... he sounds a bit like me.....
all you have to do is ask him to talk to you. what makes him so busy... ask him to sit down and talk and tell him that you two are not spending enough time together.
good luck.
2007-01-14 13:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he has a life. If you have a problem with it, talk to him. He's the only one that can really help you.
2007-01-14 12:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably isnt as busy as hemakes everything out to be,... from the sounds of it, there is someone else.
2007-01-14 12:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by BigMaMa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like me your are not important enough to him for him to take time to spend with you.
2007-01-14 12:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by DeeAnn w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a friendship relationship, don't push any buttons.
2007-01-14 12:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋