in response to my previous question 'I live in my boyfriends house'
I do most of the cleaning day in day out, even thought I'm up from 4am daily.
2007-01-14 04:38:24 · 9 answers · asked by leffers55 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
then make him help and share the load
2007-01-14 04:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let it go. Then when he says something about it, tell him you are just too tired. But, if you are contributing to the household in any way, you do have some legal rights and you could sue if you break up! Check the laws in your state. YOU DO HAVE RIGHTS. But let it go and see where it takes you. Or, you could use some of the money you are saving by not paying anything to hire a housekeeper. Why not do that? Yeah, I like that idea better. Then no pressure is exerted on either of you. And you can keep all of the receipts to prove you pay your way when this relationship terminates. Because he sees you as nothing more than a housekeeper with privileges. Does he make you wear a french maid costume and watch as you work? Good luck "Fifi".
2007-01-14 12:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he doesnt care about you, or is having you as a made, then you better go on your way and live an independent's life, where you do everything for yourself. Or either make him give you hand in every errand around da house.
2007-01-14 12:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Alkahest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is wanting a house keeper. not a girlfriend. You are being used.
2007-01-14 12:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
uh huh…
no, that does not appear to be a question…
altho I would advise you get a lot more sleep…
2007-01-14 12:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Carp Face 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him and start again your been used were not all like that
2007-01-14 12:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by orphan boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could come and do my cleaning as well then?
2007-01-14 12:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by pshawfocus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You poor thing! must be lovin him very much.
2007-01-14 12:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him help you too
2007-01-14 12:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by un_1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋