I was w/my kids father for over 5 yrs. He was talking to this girl from online which was no biggie. Until i happen to read im's they were writeing to eachother. I love u& cant wait to you come here for 2 weeks so we can have sex ect....So I emailed her saying we were together & stuff, but she can have him cuz I dont deserve to be disrespected like this.She wrote back thanks but I dont need your permission anyways. Anyways they are planning on moveing in together they never met. I dont think it will last she is 18 hes 30. She is very immature I can tell by the way she talks over the mic & the stuff she does on webcam. What gets me mad is she dont know me & is running her mouth about me. Yeah I am alittle overweight I had 4 kids she is about same weight. My point is I gained all my weight from my kids. Whats her reason. She will say over mic or whatever that I am 4 ft. 200 lbs im not close. I try not 2 let her bother me cuz she is immature. Do U think she has low esteem? or think her?
2007-01-14 04:27:47 · 3 answers · asked by missy e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl I wouldn't even sweat that. The girl you described sounds like a young ignorant s!u+ who has nothing better to do. As far as you go ...you can only get so angry at your man's piggish behavior. He is just shacking up with you. He has not married you. You are not the wife so legally and in the minds of many people morally you don't have a leg to stand on and are in the same category with that skank that he met online. Yes you are right it will probably only last a few weeks this union they have gotten together. I think your focus/rage should be on him talking about you online and having an online affair that evidently he wants to take real time. I wouldn't even think about her she's just some insignificant ho. Your man is the real villain in this situation. What a creep.
2007-01-14 04:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of both of them-if you allow him to disrespect you like this then I question your self esteem too. Sue him for child support and move on with your life, The girl is a goofball and you dont need to be conversing with her and allowing her to take up your precious time either. She needs to remember that if your man cheats on you--what makes her think she is so special and he wont do the same to her in due time?
2007-01-14 14:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by navigate33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she does i wouldnt let it bother you shes just a dumb kid and your husband wont get very far with her and for you a lil weight after four kids well thats to be expected so dont worry about how you look as long as you like how you look and your health is alright and also have you told him that instead of chasing young a** maybe he should consider what he has with you (four kids) and that he does have a responsiblity to them
dont let it bother you and good luck
2007-01-14 12:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋