Seems like I always end up being the nerdy-type guy and having emotions...I wanna be stronger like some of these other guys I see
2007-01-14 03:45:59 · 18 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Work out.
2007-01-14 03:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The definition of a wimp is this: an offensive term that deliberately insults somebody regarded as weak, timid, unassertive, or ineffectual. So, no, by that definition, men who gossip or back stab are not wimps. HOWEVER, I have NO RESPECT for anyone who does those sort of things. I think people who do that are childish and immature and unable to have mature adult relationships. People who gossip or back stab are not worth the space they're standing on. As for acting like a punk...the same thing. Childish and immature. I think the traits of a wimpy man would be this: no backbone. afraid to confront when things should be addressed, has no zeal, or "umph". Basically, thats what I think a wimpy man is like.
2016-03-14 05:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to have emotions as that is how you express yourself to your future girlfriend or friends you have about situations and questions that might come to mind. You only see your emotions as wimpy because you think no girl will want to go out with, the truth is that she will go out with you if she accepts you for who you are and not what you have. Don't try to be something your not or just because you see someone else do something or say something you wish you could do or say. Believe it or not some girls like nerdy-type of guys, not just because they are smart and get excellent grades, because there are things they see in nerdy guys that you would not ever thing would be there like the kind of heart you have, and your compassion to help others. Be who you are, you are sure to score a girl that way, because she will see the real you and nothing else.
2007-01-14 03:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that it's possible to change yourself in actuality, however you can perhaps change the way you come across to others. As others have said, watch some manly movies, see how John Wayne acted and maybe Claude Van Damn (sp) and others. There is nothing worse though than someone who is putting on a show and trying to be someone they are not. It's so painfully obvious to everyone around you. But women are supposed to be emotive, men are supposed to solve problems. Focus on solving problems rather than getting caught up in the feelings involved. Everyone has emotions of course but a man should use his emotions as inspiration to fix things when they need fixed and leave the crying for the females.
2007-01-14 04:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok look don't think of social groups!! guys with emotions are sweeeet!! guys all have emotions but hide it cuz they're not MANLY ENOUGH TOO SHOW THEM CUZ THEY'RE JUST THE WIMPS THAT ARE POSERS AND GET PEOPLE TO LIKE THEM BY THERE ABS AND MUSCLES AND LOOKS ha they're turn offs okay you don't have to change for nobody!! i bet your a cool guy the way you are!!!! but if you really want to change then iono start working out start by little weights and get to bigger weights and then stand up to every POSER that goes up to your face and disses you!!!! and if u get punched in the face just tell them at least i dont have to show off muscles for attentino!!!
hhahaha since im a girl i dont really know if guys would do this!!
GOOD LUCK THOUGH :]
2007-01-14 03:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by x3_myz_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have a positive attitude and stop taking crap from people and stand up to them. Once your attitude changes you can maybe start working out either at home or a gym. You will soon feel like you can take on the world. Good Luck
2007-01-14 03:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to be, man. just be yourself . however, im a mannish type guy and here's what me & my buddies did in the past.
pepperspray fights
bottlerocket fights
wrestling
pain will make you harden rather quickly, but you should still be yourself and not worry
2007-01-14 03:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i can tell that u doubt yourself alot. And u don't have any backbone.I would recommend that u take a make-over and have a new style like the TV show "MADE" on mtv. I think u should do that.I think u have a problem.
2007-01-14 04:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by abreil m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok first of all, start listening to better songs, if you listen to westlife, backstreet boys, switch, find something you like but you know is manly, e.g. rap, rock, metal...Then go and rent the movie Scarface, then Goodfellas then Godfather all of them if you have time, dont care so much about what people say about you or to you, dont let it get to you, stand up for yourself!
2007-01-14 03:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Drink whiskey and chase it with beer.
2. Start fights with guys that are bigger than you.
3. Sleep with a different girl every night.
4. Get covered in tattoos.
5. Do something crazy and go to prison for a few years.
Then you can be a tough guy - just like me.
2007-01-14 03:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by white.devil 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋