Did I do The right thing?

Question

My b/f is in ohio visiting his Family he really didn't want to go...he gets back the 16th and than he leaves for training in missouri on the 18th he won't be back til april and this was the last weekend we had to see each other . Before he left he told me "if you want me to stay i will I told him to go because i would go if it was my grandma. Well he went out with an old friend from high school and he told me about it i was fine til i found out it was a girl i didn't let him know it bothered me. I trust him i just don't trust other women. I knew he would go out and hang with some of his old friends but should i have told him i wanted to stay? I mean we won't see each other for almost 3 months

Answer 1

if u trust him, then nuthin aint gon happen girl...but u gotta understand that sometimes its hard to work long distance relationships but if u want this to work, then talk to him!
keepin everything inside and hurtin yourself aint gonna do anyone any good, so talk to him on the phone...

Answer 2

You have to let him live his life and make his own decisions, especially when it comes to his family. Pressing the issue of him seeing the girl, might make things worse while he is at training. I'd wait until he returns and then address the issue. Hopefully, your feelings will be rekindled by that point.

Answer 3

You can't control a man cause if he will cheat he will cheat. I think you did the right thing. If you have trust in a relationship then it won't matter to you what he does. If you are second guessing yourself then maybe you shouldn't be in this relationship.

Answer 4

Ouch. Well, drop him. You did the right thing; he didn't.
Of course, that could just be because when that happened to me, that my boyfriend didn't tell me about the girls on the camping trip, one of them was his ex.
But even so, I think it's obvious that he's deceitful.
Sorry to hear of it!