I met a guy at work, he is good looking guy, the guy that all girls from my work got crush on him. But the problem is he god crush on me and he knows that i am merried (not availble). He is all the time nice to me, even when i am not nice to him. I like to be his friend but i don't think that what he wants, he wants more then friends...please help me somehow i don't wanna say somthing to hurt his feelings or distroy my merrige.
2007-01-14 03:51:34 · 15 answers · asked by Mely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's your feelings that you should worry about as you are
a wife and a wife puts a man in his place if she is truly
in love with her husband. Just tell him straight out the way
you feel and if he is any kind of a man or gentleman he
will respect your feelings. You do not need a friend like
him so stand your ground and put him in his place.
2007-01-14 08:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he care about your feelings? NO. So you simply come out and tell him, talk to me with respect or don't talk to me at all. And remind him that there is this thing called sexual harrasment in the work place. Depending on what he is saying or doing . There is a married guy at my job that does this same thing to women, he does not care if married or not he just wants in everyones pants and has got there with some of them. He is a pig so to speak and I told him many times that he has a good wife and he shouldn't be doing the things he does and i reminded him that SOMEONE could get very upset and file the harrasment on him . He is very nice to me and says nothing further to me than just being nice and I think he respects me because I wasn't one of the stupid ones that went for this.
2007-01-14 04:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does that make you obsessive? To me at the same time as a better half flirts that is because they are searching for interest, commonly via lack of self assurance. it truly is amazingly self-established and is disrespectful to their better half. it truly is a "seem at me" type of deal. for sure you don't like it, nor ought to you. i ought to tell her the way it makes you experience - what else are you going to do? that is both that or proceed putting up with it. do not flirt consisting of her pals - dropping to someone's' low factor of habit to get them to end is infantile and commonly escalates undesirable issues.
2016-11-23 17:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why he's after you so much-he's so used to all the other ladies at work chasing after him that when one comes along that doesn't, he's all over it. I wouldn't even be friends-keep it utterly professional, tell him you don't want to associate with the office slut, and bring your hubby around as often as possible. That's not fair to you that you are hindered from doing your job because of highschool BS.
2007-01-14 04:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,is this guy always flirting with you,well i think you should tell him that, sorry but am married,tell him that could we just be freinds . plz i have a husband already. so just plz could be just friend but you cant be more then a freind ok. well if he starts flirting with you. he prabally whats to u now go on the bed type, well make sure his not that kind of guy.
p.s; if he still wants to be more than freinds you should do whatever to ignore him.
he doesent care about you honey he just wants to do it with ya thats all. well honey i hope you take my advice
2007-01-14 04:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by cupitgirl100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a good looking guy he knows it. he has probably worked on his technique to let you think he only wants you.tell him how great your husband is and how you can't imagine a life without him. It will work like a bomb.if it doesn't tell him you've always dreamed of having seven children
2007-01-14 04:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by suspicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR HUSBAND OR JUST STOP TALKING TO THE GUY HE"LL GET IT OR tell him that it seems to you that he would have a less girls interested in him if he didnt act like a whore or that' what iheard or you could try hey leave me the f*ck alone i am not and will not be interested in you its just not my thing guysn have to be told point blank they get blinders when they want something. or tell him that he's greasy and he needs to take a bath cause you will never date greasy stinky guys! and baby once greasy always greasy?!?
2007-01-14 04:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by hollywood lewis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your married and love your husband and your not comfortable with his flirting with you. If he is any kind of a man, he will understand. Knowing your married, he shouldn't be flirting with you to begin with.
2007-01-14 03:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find what sport he's into and suggest him to play with your husband! haha, well that's a bit foolish, but not as foolish as not telling a man who knows your married to piss off.
2007-01-14 03:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Allen S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you feel uncomfortable when he is like that. And you want him to stop. If you don't think of what will happen to your marrige.
2007-01-14 03:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋