I live in a rural town with a population of 400, and this girl lives just out of town. For those who have fancy resaurants or theaters to go to on a first date, we don't have this stuff here. I'm 14, she's just a few months younger. I don't talk to her much, just a "morning" in the morning at school, most of the time. What should I do to get her to have more feelings towards me?
2007-01-14 02:46:15 · 16 answers · asked by Chris W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to make a longer conversation instead of just a morning. You can ask her what she had for breakfast, where she'd gone to the day before and eventually the conversation will go on and on...Good luck!
2007-01-14 02:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by the DoEr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i know exactly how you feel. i have to drive for at least an hour to have those fancy resturaunts and theaters. i am 15, but my advice is to use humor and ask questions that to get to know her. that way she will know that you are sincerely interested in her and when you come on too fast or too strong it can sometimes be a turn-off so take it slow and get her to really like you as a friend first. if you have anymore questions than you can email me by clicking on my pic and find the link to email me! good luck!
2007-01-14 10:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her that you are interested by doing something special for her that has to do with her. Like if she likes music, make her a mixed cd of her favorite songs or get her tickets to her favorite concert. Or even just suprise her with her favorite candy. Its the little things that show her that you know who she is and care about her interest that counts, you don't need to spend a lot of money if she is a good girl.
2007-01-14 10:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by katya7481 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am almost 14 my advice is work hard at school your way too young for such stuff.e-mail me we need to talk more you have lots of time to think about girls.Be succesfull in future and all the girls will fall fopr you for now forcuss on your studies.
2007-01-14 10:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by ISABELLE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a poem.....or find a nice poem....then on the botton write will u go out with me, check yes or no.....
find something in ur town to do....a diner or something
Good Luck, hope she is feeling u
2007-01-14 10:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Hi my name is... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself around her. And if she really likes you, she'll like you for who you are. Try spending time with her. Invite her over to watch a movie, or something, it might be awkward, but you have to start somewhere!
2007-01-14 10:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by xSSxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her "special attention" like not only saying hi and bye, try to make long conversations with her or...
write her a cute love letter and tell her how you feel
gud luck*
-mrs vaughan
2007-01-14 10:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Niela-Tequila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, around her and be yourself!
Offer to do some nice deed, or she may already be going
steady with another.
2007-01-14 10:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by urolemah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i think you should pay attention to your studies more.
but there are many things you can do together. like read books, but first find out what she likes. you can also pay attention to small details, that would make her feel special.
2007-01-14 10:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by lonelygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. if you have a local community center or something. Maybe you could set up your "resturant" in your home.
2007-01-14 10:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by New Yorker94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋