hi i have just joined the gym and have fallen for my gym instructer and now am stuck i have a boyfriend i dont know anything about him what should i do?
thank you
2007-01-14 00:30:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What I suggest is that you take the time out and really think about how you feel about your boyfriend, because if your just easily falling for another guy and having doubts about your boyfriend then something is amiss in your relationship.
Master Yoshi
www.rareporncollections.com
2007-01-14 00:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by sebusiness2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 some
2007-01-14 08:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just gym lust where you feel like you've met someone who shares some interest as you, may be if you met outside the gym it would be something different. Keep the fantasy to get yourself fit. am sure you'll be going more frequently now, but then also have a reality check, guess quite a few people fancy him if he's a hot guy. Focus on the feel good dose but go to your boyfriend for the real thing..
2007-01-14 19:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest i don't think you have really fallen for your gym instructor, i think its because he is a new guy that has come into your life and its a change from what you are used too.
You have to ask yourself if you love your boyfriend and if you are happy with him?? I'm sure your answer will be yes for both of these so please don't worry so much over this.
Just because you have a boyfriend does not mean that you cant find some other guy nice, as-long as you don't act on it then don't worry. We all like to window shop from time to time, we just cant buy that's all.
Good luck xxx
2007-01-14 08:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So...It sounds like you're not too happy with your current boyfriend, if you have 'fallen' for your instructor?
My advice, break up with the boyfriend as if this is the case it's not fair on him. And there's no point being with someone who doens't make you happy.
It's fine to have a crush on your instructor, but I wouldn't advise you take it anywhere.
My friend is a gym instructor, he says he has women throwing themselves at him and embarassing themselves alot. So unless he makes a move, don't embarass yourself!
2007-01-14 09:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi it maybe just a crush you know that teacher pupil thing and if he is a gym instuctor i presume he is fit .i bet he is used to attention anyway
if the feeling is really strong then it may be time to put a halt to your other relationshipbefore you embark on getting to know the instructor
the first thing i would want to know is he in a relationship of any kind sort of ask leading questions to find out and then take it from there
you may find looks and brawn are not everything and outside of his job he may not be what you want afterall be carefull and good luck
2007-01-14 08:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honsestly think that the feeling you have for your gym instrictor is just a crush or maybe you are just searching for somebody new because you have had enough of your b/f. As for not knowing anything about him then start asking lots of questions.
2007-01-14 08:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not in love with this gym instructor, you'll just be caught up in the fantasy of a gym instructor,
but you're with your boyfriend for a reason so remain faithful if that means finding another gym so be it!
2007-01-14 08:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by jimbob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like your boyfriend then I'd say don't go to that gym anymore or get a different instructor but if you really like the instructor then tell your boyfriend the truth and finish with him. xxx
2007-01-14 11:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by demi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a boyfriend but you don't know anything about him? Wow - that's a tough one. Well, I guess if you know nothing about your boyfriend it doesn't matter if you dump him and go off with the gym instructor?
2007-01-14 08:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by pshawfocus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋