how do i overcome from tension when everyone around me are of negative thinkers and my fate also not with me?

Answer 1

IGNORE THE NEGATIVE THINKS AND BE HAPPY ABOUT THE POSITIVE ONES.

Answer 2

Allways try to surround yourself with positive people. Ones who see good in allmost any situation, or make good from them. Most of the time, people tht you think really like you, are the one's who envy u, or jealous of you. So if they're always negative, or downing a thought u may have had....... chances are these folks are not made of "REAL FRIEND"material. Dont get me wrong some of the best friends are the ones who can tell you the good, and the bad in an honest and loving friend way, I think those are the ones you keep around for the long haul.

But if a so called"friend" changes who you are, and make things so intense, than maybe its healthier for you to back away, or confront them about their behavior, sometimes people are unconscious of the things they do and say, or atleast pretend to be. If tht doesn't put a lid on the tension, Stay away!!!

true blue

Answer 3

You should try and stay away from the people who are negitive, but i know that is easyer said then done. Some times you feel stuck when your around the negitive thinkers and you cant understand why they say such thaings. This is normal. but try to look at it a diffrent way. ask questions like Why are they so negitive, How did they become that way, when did it happen. This way you can get an understanding. I doupt there being negitive just to be negitive. Try not to ask these questions directly though or you might upset them.
Also
When you say "and my fate also not with me?" im guessing your saying that you dont have control of your fate. You allways have control of your fate. no matter what country your in under any kind of cercomestances. No one can take that away. you just have to relize what you have to do to contol it, and if you dont contole it then how can you ever have contol over it.

of course i am not an expert of any sorts so you dont have to belive any of this. it is just from my experience and thoughts
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thx
Sahara

Answer 4

Don't ever think that fate isn't with u coz not many people can question like u on web n try to solve their problem 4rm other's advice. u should always compare urself with the one who's lower than u n b happy 4 how lucky U r! 4 being optimistic u need 2 b away 4rm pessimists. the way u need air to breathe u need hope more than anything in life to survive & live so don't give up HOPE netime coz there's always a better tommorrow waitin 4 u...

Answer 5

Keep mum and keep working. Fate always favors us. Sometimes we get late results only so that we work harder like our parents giving us harsh treatment to discipline us and make us a better person. Keep your patience, you will soon get the results of all your hard work. If everyone else around you have a negative approach, it is best to keep quiet and interact less and less and only be formal, until your time comes to prove that positive approach really helps. You are responsible for yourself and whatever everyone else thinks is their business. If they cannot think positively, maintain a formal distance until you can prove the things otherwise. Best of Luck!

Answer 6

Get away from the negative thinkers. Only allow yourself to be around positive people. You have the right to pick and choose who can and can not be within your circle of life.

Answer 7

It doesnt matter wat ppl around u thinks. Bring positive energy in urself 1st. Try to read articles dat r inspiring or if u r religious than spending an hour or more daily in praying ( like meditation or just thinking abt god) is a strongest source of positive energy.

Everyone has tensions dear, just do all ur worldy duties, be good human & ask forgivness from god for ur deeds & leave rest up to god. He doesnt betrays anyone who belives in him.

& last but not the least give all ur tension to ur senior as u r a junior hehhehe.........just to make u smile..... smile plzz.

Answer 8

before i answer you..i would be really interested in knowing as to how you confidently declare that fate is not with you......if you can tell me I would also measure my fate and its presence or absence.....beleive me it is you who appears to be the biggest negative thinker

Answer 9

Think positive......keep telling yourself over and over that negative thoughts only hurt....build yourself up and believe that anything is
possible.

I listen to music.....keeps me up-beat and wow to the energy!

Maybe with in time your positive thinking will rub off....I use to think that certain people were brought my way for a reason(still do) and wow to the feeling of watching them start to believe in themselves....we have to if we don't who will

More Power to you!

Best wishes

Answer 10

Before u meet think positively it should come fr Ur heart then only u can achive the situation