hi, i'm 25 and i just broke up with my ex bf who was mentally abusing me. recently, i got to know a guy and he likd me as wellbut i told him i can't fall for him now since i'm on my recovery stage and i didn't feel like having a friend. he said he'll wait for me till i recover.past 2 days, he's been quite rude to me and saying tht he's expressing his love but i'm just like a "stone". i told him we can be frens and get ot know each other 1st but he wants to get into a r/shp.shud i have just said YES to avoid him from breaking up with me?i can' t take the pain of my break up from my ex and now this guy is saying he wants to end our friendship coz he said i'm so ego and i dont want to accept his proposal. i am confused and in pain.can't even concentrate in my studies.
2007-01-14 00:27:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, the message you gave him is you are not interested. If I was the new boyfriend, I would find a woman who was not so concerned with her past relationships and cared about me. Just ask yourself, "What is he getting out of this relationship?"
2007-01-14 00:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont really think this guy is really a friend.... It seems to me he is putting alot of pressure on you and only worrying about his own feelings. You should NOT say yes just because you feel pressured into a relationship with this jerk! He actually sounds quite obsessive! I think you should tell this guy to take a hike and give you some space. Sounds like he is just stressing you out and you dont need that at all.
The right man for you will come along when you are ready for it.... You will know who the right man is when you meet him, because you wont even remember who your ex is!!!
2007-01-14 09:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ditched him, don't be so hard on yourself. You told him that you didn't want a relationship and just wanted to be friends and he was prepared to wait. Since then he's changed his mind and has been rude to you - just as well you decided to wait. Never say "Yes'" if you are not 100% sure. You'll find someone who is sensitive and caring and puts your feelings first. Good Luck.
2007-01-14 09:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Poppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and him are going in opposite directions for what either one of you are looking for right now. He's ready to jump right in and you need time. If he can not understand that then it's not going to work more than likely and you should probably just let him go. If you stick around and accept his proposal then you aren't going to be happy right now. And if you don't, he won't be happy. It's tough, but unfortunately that's what it sounds like. You should find someone a little more patient and understanding.
2007-01-16 23:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by jh361 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ditch him, it is obvious that he is not considerate of you feelings and that is not the type of relationship you need now or ever. You need to take time to heal, time for you and instead of worrying about him and his "opinions" of you place you energy where it will pay off in the future: Your Studies! P.S. Honey stay away from these abusive men you deserve alot better.
2007-01-14 08:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told him that you don't feel like having a friend right?
2007-01-14 08:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to wait because he's horny. That's most likely all he wants from you. Sorry.........
2007-01-14 08:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋