My bf and I are dating and he has resently moved out. But we left it open so each f us can still date other people. Is this a way of just putting off the inevitable or do we still have a chance?
2007-01-14 08:43:59 · 12 answers · asked by ridenitroughly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There might still be a chance, but if you decide that you want each other- then you have to keep the reminders of them being with other people at bay. You both might find out it isn't as easy as you think. Jealousy is a bad mofo!! Plus it depends on how long you two were together- the longer together, the harder to look the other way when the new dates start showing up. And it is obviously not doing much to fix the problem in the first place. I guess my final answer is: we never know with relationships.
2007-01-14 08:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by live75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not living together anymore, and dating other people, than I suggest you move on. There really doesn't seem to be much hope, especially since your dating other people. Let go and find someone who will love you up close - not from a distance!
2007-01-14 08:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle♥Elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I had a similar experience,my advice to you would be to
"Forget About It". If you do get back together you will be both always wondering what the other did in private when dating someone else.
2007-01-14 09:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by jersee409 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up. You're broken up already, just not completely.
According to Soundgarden, the grass is always greener where the dogs are sh!tting. Oh, yeeeaaahhh.
2007-01-14 08:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life he is!!
If by some twist of fate you reconcile, then confront the reasons as to why you both gotten to this point and then hopefully move forward, But!!!! at this stage of the game you and him are both FREE agents..
Good luck
2007-01-14 08:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say this only means he can sleep with you and other girls.Either be together or break up.Being in the Grey area isn't a good thing.You could catch some really nasty things.
2007-01-14 09:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're putting off the inevitable until something better comes along. Cut the cord! Be the first to let go - you'll feel better about yourself. (and he can't say he's the one that dumped you. lolol.) First time, shame on you; second time, shame on me.
2007-01-14 08:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dacious P.I. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that you have both agreed to amicably split up. The minutes you agreed to date others means that you are no longer exclusive. Find someone who will value you as you are worth more!
2007-01-14 08:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-01-14 09:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the end of romance and maybe the beginning of friendship if you can handle that!!!!
2007-01-14 08:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mrsdonmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋