Guys and Gals, the age old question. Should she approach you first, or do you approach her first?

Question

The old rule, never let them know you like them (for girls). Now, if a guy makes the first move and talks to you, how would guys be enticed to go back and talk to this girl more often? Good personality and charm works, but how would it be possible for the both of you to talk more often? Thanks!

I'm a girl btw, and this guy I like talked to me first, and I don't know where to go from there

Answer 1

Seems like now a days that rule doesn't apply much anymore. Just go say hi to the gal---make friends with her and stuff. :) n

Answer 2

If you're a guy just whip it out the chicks love that. Its something for them to talk about

Answer 3

Talk to her, first. iIf she stays and listens and participates in conversation, you know she's interested and you can ask for her number. If she excuses herself or looks over her shoulder while you are talking, she's not interested and you need to find someone else.

Answer 4

I don't think it matters who approaches who first. If you are interested in someone become friends. Relationships are easier if they are friendship based.

Answer 5

I like it when guys approach me first.
if the girl is interested, she'll flirt with you, and that shows you that she wants more of you.

Answer 6

I think if you like her or him then just go up and say hi but if you want to play hard to get and you think she will come after you then yeah let her come to you

Answer 7

Stop playing games and meet in the middle.

Answer 8

idc, it shouldnt matter, i made the first move on my first b/f... i asked him out.. so w/e idc if ppl think guys should make the move. you wont get him if you dont ask him

Answer 9

girls never aprouch guys. you make the first move dude.