After 8 months we broke up yesterday. I vented to him how I was angry and hurt, then later on I went over there to get my things and he grabbed me and held me, I asked for a kiss and he didn't hesitate, then we had break up sex, I broke down crying afterwards, he held me & kissed my forehead, wiped my tears. Then we had sex again and afterwards he said, "I love you little lady" and I asked him to tell me it was over and he said, "we are officially seperated." The he stated we gon be close friends and we can still do everything like before, then I talked about the future and he said that IF he doesn't marry me, he'll be at the wedding. What could any of this mean?
2007-01-14 08:39:04 · 5 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he really loves you but maybe he's just not ready for that kind of commitment, give him some time to sort things out. talk to him and tell him what message he's sending you.
2007-01-14 08:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he wants a friend with benefits.
Perhaps he'll still want it even after you marry someone else. Is that who you are? I hope not.
You need to know you are a special person worthy of a better man and a better relationship. You need more self esteem. Write to me if you want to talk but be ready to hear things you may not want to hear.
2007-01-14 17:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Bill G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that he needs some room to breath and that it may be OK He loves you. There is a difference in it being over and being separated.
2007-01-14 18:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by dyersburgdelilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u two arnt together and arent getting back together.
he used u when u were vulnerable,
he saw ur weak nessand picked at it.
you two are just friends and i seems like it will stay that way....
2007-01-14 16:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by m V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dnt think u should be with someone who doesnt want u the way u want him.
2007-01-14 16:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋