2007-01-14 07:58:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who's given you a broken heart. Tell us and we'll send in the heavy mob to sort them out.
2007-01-15 01:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this hurts - my sister recently went through a break-up with her boyfriend, and it was the reason for my joining Yahoo Answers, to ask advice on how best to help her.
I don't know whether I can cheer you up, but I'll try and offer some comfort/advice. Sometimes you need to mope/wallow in it, but try to enlist at least one friend or relative to pull you out of it if you feel like that for too long. You can always return the favour when they are sad about something. Other times when you feel a bit better, spend time with sisters or friends - whether going out or having a girly night in. Have a real anti-men b*tch, and tell them all the embarrassing stuff he did or said, and have a good laugh at him. (I have been told that a quick rebound relationship can be a good way to heal a broken heart, but I personally think you should be careful doing this, don't let the other person think your relationship is serious.) Get pampered (even if you can't afford a professional treatment, pamper yourself, or get together with friends and do each other's nails or whatever).
Generally, you need to "grieve" sometimes, but don't do it too much. Try to fill your time with other people and things: friends, family, work, volunteering, etc. Do something new or different, or if there's anything you couldn't do while with your boyfriend, make the most of having your independence back and do it! Catch up with people you haven't had time to see because you were with him, wear clothes he didn't like, or whatever.
Basically, remember what a special person you are, and just keep telling yourself you're worth more and will get over this.
All the best.
2007-01-14 12:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHhhh Bless ya
Listen it doesnt matter how old you are!
We all have our hearts broken, but the thing is it doesnt actually kill us! We're still here on this earth, we still have friends we can call on or parents and siblings to get a hug from!!!
And i will tell you right now, 6 months down the line you will look back and think "what was that all about".
You need to get out there and prove to people that you are strong and enjoy the freedom, do something really different that you never imagined doing, visit a place you always wanted to go, and actually do it instead of saying it!
Keep positive and you will be absolutely fine- I speak the truth and you know why? Because I have a broken heart too!
2007-01-14 08:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, get off the couch or off the computer and stop eating that junk! Don't you dare go back to bed! Get out of your PJs and wipe your eyes. If you look gross you will feel gross.
Take a bath and light some candles. Close your eyes and think about at least 20 things that bugged you about this guy. Sure, right now he is perfect in your eyes and it was all your fault! Really try, because everyone has irritating things about them and don't get out of that tub until you have come up with 20 things!
Now, after you do that, get yourself into your favourite outfit, put on your favourite scent, fix your hair and put some makeup on or whatever it is you do. Call a good girlfriend up and tell her you need support and you look great but feel like hell. Get out with the girls even if you don't want to. Listen to me very carefully....do NOT mope around the house, okay?
Anytime you feel down while you are home tell yourself you are amazing and strong and to fall into your heartbreak is to let him have the best of you.
Watch funny movies, go for a jog, read hysterical break up books or girl books like Last Chance Saloon (very funny!), work on yourself and have good friends around.
You feel like hell now and this is easier said than done...but you can do it! YOU ARE NO QUITER! So, put on your toughest face.
Be strong, girl! Seriously.
2007-01-14 08:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some advice write a diary, don't think about what you write just write, soon enough you will discover exactly why u are feeling so down, maybe you need a little help. Find someone you can trust, stop dwelling on it, do something you enjoy for a while, only by trying to do things you like can you begin to heal, dwelling on past hurts is unhealthy. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, just say to yourself I am still standing, nothing can break me down, and keep telling urself that until you truly believe it. It seems to me like you have given up on urself, find a little self-respect it will go a long way.
2007-01-14 15:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by cheeky_lil_pixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry yet when I were you i ought to burn this. No offence yet when i replaced into on the different end reading this i ought to probable imagine that you've been nuts. And your confession ought to actual freak me out. earlier making a confession to someone make confident that the guy feels the same way about you. you are able to exhibit your emotions to him with a magnificent card. Expressing your self to someone like you wrote "ive fallen difficult and it hurts like ******* hell" it really is truly not proper. on your confession also you wrote "cuz i recognize you dont ever wanna be better than pals" in case you understand this then why ought to you want to waste a at the same time as with him. you also wrote "its extraordinary how a lot skill you've over me", by no skill provide that a lot skill to no individual. If each person receives that a lot skill over then you definately you actual will deliver about an abuse relationship. Or adult adult males will use you for see you later as they want you. Take you time. and do not rush to be in a relationship in simple terms because you imagine you're in love with the guy. Be cool and coach adult adult males that you've a large number of respect your self and that you're a magnificent individual.
2016-11-23 18:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by crossland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D: Oh you just need to try to get over it, I know that sounds a little mean but it's best to try to forget about it. If you still see the person that hurt you then act happy around him/her, being happy is the best revenge. I'm truley sorry that you feel this way, i've been in that possition too and it isn't fun. Stay close to your friends and try to have as much fun as possible. i'd recomend right now if you can't go anywhere to watch a funny movie like "she's the man", that always makes me laugh. :) hope you get better and whomever hurt you is a real jerk, I'm sorry. :)
2007-01-14 08:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by darkfallenangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray! gave all the trust in the Lord and he will take all that pain away from you after all he loves you & doesn't want you upset remember you are still young and BOY there are alot of males that would die for you but seems you are looking in the wrong place.When you least expect it it will be your free time then.After all you are worth it .Take care & good luck ok?Remember there is some one out there that does LOVE you.Adios.I love you.(Smiles)
2007-01-14 08:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by maamawalanis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the best way to forget the pain is to remember something good in your life and work with that. Also you can IM me anytime and I'll cheer you up and you can enjoy the days to come.
2007-01-14 08:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to cry, it helps but addopt a different attitude. Dont let anyone resort you to this. be strong girl and hold your head up. everyone has had a broken heart at one point but show him that you are strong and in the end he will wonder why he ever hurt you.
2007-01-14 08:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by KATIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋