Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

2007-01-14 07:40:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Engaged for a year. Bought a house etc. Lived together for 7 months and relationship turned verbally abusive. Couldnt take the fighting, demanded he go to counseling which he didnt do at the time so I moved out 6 months ago. Said I would consider a relationship with him if he went for couseling or anger management. Over the last 6months he changed jobs and was caught upin his own life and started counseling and anger management this past week.

Over the last 6months I have gotten much stronger with counseling myself and support from friends who want better for me.

Now I dont know what to do. He is doing what I asked and frustrated that I amnot sure where to go from here. Part of me is afraid to try again because I DONT want a crap relationship and a small part of me thinks that maybe my friends know better then me.

I could try again and just take my time and see if he really changes but I know that my family and friends would be very afraid for me. What would you do?

2007-01-14 07:38:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was only 14+ n he 19 when we started.I'm 21 now.I broke up with him due to parental objections,they said I'm too young.He couldn't accept tat reason n finally I lied to him sayin tat I like his best fren.He let go but he made d initiative to see or contact me during my bday every yr after tat.He showed tat he's still holding on so last yr I decided to give both of us a chance n he promised to turn up at my hse d nx day.he didnt n sent me an sms saying tat maybe it's better if we just meet by fate maybe on a street or somewhere,someday.I told him bout d truth, tat I lied back then n all n tat my feelings for him hasnt faded n I've rejected guys who came along after tat cause I was all this while waiting for him.He didnt reply. Recently I mailed him n he replied.I don't know how I should tell him tat I miss him n want him back in my life. I know I sound selfish,after d things I've done n I'm expecting him to make a come back..but I can't bear any longer, I love him! Can anyone help me?

2007-01-14 07:37:50 · 3 answers · asked by AnChloe 1 in Singles & Dating

what can i do

when im in the street or anywhere
i always look at everybdy directly to the eyes
but i meen everybody
and when i look at guys i do that too
and they think im flirtng with them
but its just someting that i do
dont know why

my bf sees me doing this and he gets mad sometimes
and i explained him this




but how can i make myself stop doing this

2007-01-14 07:37:40 · 3 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Friends

to spit or to swallow?

2007-01-14 07:37:12 · 1 answers · asked by Tiffi Poodle Pie 69 2 in Singles & Dating

i have dated my bf for 6 months and i really love him! but i have ben thinking he is hiding something from me like the way he acts now and gets off the phone all the time like he never used to and we dont even talk that much when we are together it goes great! but i think he is hideing something what should i do????

2007-01-14 07:37:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And what doesn't?

2007-01-14 07:36:38 · 11 answers · asked by its just me 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I go to this martial arts class, and there was this guy, and he'd been looking at me across the room and smiling at me loads, even though we've barely talked. Then at a new years eve party he turned up, I was suprised, but wen he came over and started to talk 2 me I was completely shocked!
I completely messed it up and I think I convinced him that I wasnt interested (but I SO am)
so it ended with him going bak and hanging out with his mates
So at the nxt class he practically ignored me
I know I acted like a freak bt i wana let him know I am interested!
So shud I jst smile and look at him like a I used to
or b more bold and go and talk to him? (i can b quite shy, so this cud b risky)
please help!!!
thank u xxxxxx

2007-01-14 07:35:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are deeply in love and I trust him very much, but he often loses his temper in heated arguements with other people. He has never so much as even raised his voice to me and he swears he would never ever hit me but thats exactly what my last bf said at first but then when I wouldn't be his freak on a leash he got pissed and beat the s hit out of me. I dont want to have this reaccure but I have seen him get mad at others and I dont want him to turn on me....I dont think he ever would and I love him very much, but all my friends are concerned about him...they think I should leave him. am I really in a dangerous situation or are they worried over nothing? what should I do?

2007-01-14 07:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been out once with this guy,prior to that we spoke loads on the phone,i want to know/advice between now and the next date,how often is normal to text etc-dont want to come across too keen or not interested!!-Yes it sounds pathetic but you guys normally speak sense

2007-01-14 07:28:42 · 11 answers · asked by NATALIE W 3 in Singles & Dating

Some of my girls are thinking of doing it just to see what guys are out there. I don't know if I want to join them. I would be alittle embarrassed if a coworker or some other friends see me and think I'm desparate. Plus, this may sound weird but I'm also afraid of ex-bf seeing them and saying "hah...serves you right!!!" or something. What do you all think?

2007-01-14 07:27:32 · 12 answers · asked by bunnychica1984 2 in Singles & Dating

We've only been married a little over a year and she doesn't seem to want it very often. I always have to initiate it. She says she's tired a lot. She does work hard so I try to understand. She also says that she enjoys it very much when we do have sex, so I just don't get it. I often feel bad for bringing it up because I feel like maybe I'm pressuring her. I'm 30 and she is 27 and it just seems like our sex drives are at opposite ends of the spectrum. What to do??

2007-01-14 07:26:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Skinny dipped? haha

2007-01-14 07:25:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i'm really mad at most of my family, and i have to go to the birthday party of the one i'm mad at most, i begged and still cant get out of this. How do i gwet out of this, at he party is there a way i can get to the hospital with out getting injured, or break anything, is there a way i can passout!!? help mme please!

2007-01-14 07:24:48 · 4 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Family

He has divorced her, got his nisi but not applied for his absolute. The settlement has not been agreed yet.

What if we wanted to live together?

Answers for UK please.

2007-01-14 07:23:47 · 5 answers · asked by intelligentbutdizzy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 07:23:25 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

Would you do it again?

2007-01-14 07:23:15 · 9 answers · asked by SusieeQ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 07:23:11 · 6 answers · asked by IMA SUCK@SS 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i like and i dont think he likes me
well anyway i want to make him jelious and dont you say DONT the question is will it make him jelious if i keep talkin and smilin to this new guy in front of me

2007-01-14 07:21:39 · 9 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 07:21:39 · 6 answers · asked by DaQuiteGuy 1 in Singles & Dating

i have 3 kids, i get no help, im mentally and physically worn out! im thinkin that it may be easier to go to work.

2007-01-14 07:20:56 · 9 answers · asked by frogtoes74 2 in Family

I wrote this guy that I am madly and insanely in love with (we're pretty food friends now) a sappy love song that is surprisingly really good, but now I'm not so sure. I think it would be a good way to finally let him now, like put it on a CD and label it Bonus Track, or something. Is a song too over the top? Should I just forget it and talk to him like everybody else? What do you guys think?

2007-01-14 07:20:17 · 8 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Singles & Dating

what makes a girl happy when your relationship is getting serious!?

2007-01-14 07:20:17 · 5 answers · asked by tml93_44 1 in Singles & Dating

been chatting to a woman for ages on the net we met up a while ago nad i thought we had a good time yet she has told me tonight that she is going back to her ex who is an **** he ripped her off over money and cheated on her as well why oh why go back to him when there is the chance to be with a nice genuine warm and considerate guy (yer me lol)

2007-01-14 07:20:04 · 13 answers · asked by gav552001 5 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering if any1 wants some1 to talk to.....Im here for allll Answers Community :).. 24/7

2007-01-14 07:18:51 · 12 answers · asked by Shawn Miller 1 in Friends

We both have young children and for the most part are independent adults. Is he too young??????

2007-01-14 07:18:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 07:18:38 · 2 answers · asked by tml93_44 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 9 months. I love him very much and I know he loves me too. The problem is that before we started dating I was in a very verbally abusive relationship. The guy pretty much ripped all of the self esteem that I have left to pieces. Now, I don't feel like I'm worth my now boyfriends time. I can't help but to feel that he's too good to be with me and that I should leave him so he can find a girl much prettier and better then me. I feel so unattractive.He has told me many times that he loves me more than any other girl that he has ever met and that he wants me to be the girl he marrys, but I can't get this thought out of my head. I am also afriad to meet this family (who lives out of town), because I don't want to take the chance of them not likeing me. He wants me to meet them. What can I do to get out of this funk and to feel better about myself.

2007-01-14 07:18:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do u ask a girl out if she says no how do u show u arent heart broken?

2007-01-14 07:18:05 · 15 answers · asked by BobbyFlayRox_My_Sox 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 07:17:28 · 5 answers · asked by i_love_some_person 1 in Friends