I go to this martial arts class, and there was this guy, and he'd been looking at me across the room and smiling at me loads, even though we've barely talked. Then at a new years eve party he turned up, I was suprised, but wen he came over and started to talk 2 me I was completely shocked!
I completely messed it up and I think I convinced him that I wasnt interested (but I SO am)
so it ended with him going bak and hanging out with his mates
So at the nxt class he practically ignored me
I know I acted like a freak bt i wana let him know I am interested!
So shud I jst smile and look at him like a I used to
or b more bold and go and talk to him? (i can b quite shy, so this cud b risky)
please help!!!
thank u xxxxxx
2007-01-14 07:35:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go talk to him. Act interested!! don't deny yourself the possibility of a relationship, or even a good friendship, because you are too shy!!
You have nothing to lose. If it doesn't work out, you will be back where you started but proud that you took the chance.
Goodluck.
2007-01-14 07:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you obtain the heading fantastic - YOU ruined all of it. you made the alternative to cheat. you made the alternative to interrupt your marital vows. Your husband has no criminal responsibility to take a seat down again and smile and faux each thing is okay in simple terms because you presently experience accountable. try putting the shoe on the different foot. What ought to you experience or do if it replaced into he who had finished the dishonest at the same time as you've been truthful? If he's able to forgive you, it is going to take a lengthy time period and probable some counseling for you both. and also you may ought to post with him not trusting you and declaring some hurtful issues because, face it, you deserve it. you've damaged a sacred union for slightly relaxing interior the sack with someone that you do not even care about. So now, take your drugs like a huge lady. in case you truly want to save your marriage jointly, you should do better than say you're sorry. you should coach it each day until eventually he believes it.
2016-11-23 18:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to him straight with the following comment:" Honey...You failed the test"
As though you wish to tell him he was under a TEST from your end to see how eager he was, or how serious he was....
That's your way out...
If he still acts like ignoring you, then you lost him due to what you did not mention in your comments & question...and could have hurt his feelings, but if you are aware of all you said, and it was a matter of telling him you were not interested ONLY, then I think he would get along with you just fine...
Give it a try, and lets see how he reacts, but dont let the issue go that simple...
After all u do like the guy and wish to be with him, don't you... In that case, you need to give it a try; otherwise it is a total loss...
2007-01-14 07:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Annie: well that's yourself to know and him don't know at all
because it's personal responsibility among both parties
were they take "Martial Arts Class" for self defense like I did
long ago with an certifide dojo myself ! yes keep mind in what
you'd learn and take that one step at a time ok ?
2007-01-14 07:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth..tell him you were a little drunk and were not acting yourself, but you would really like to hang after class one day.
2007-01-14 07:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by CK1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to go and talk to him. he's already tried to make the move on you it sounds like so now i think you should be the one to go make the move on him. go over and talk to him... dont be scared if he really likes you then he'll think its great you're trying to get him back. explain to him how you feel and everything should be fine. good luck!
2007-01-14 07:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by washingtonwhitegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him be friendly say hi u enjoy urself the other night?, so that he thinks oo maybe she likes me hey presto instant bf!! haha goodluck x x x
2007-01-14 07:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks you aren't interested, you're going to have to be a little bolder. Talk to him.
2007-01-14 07:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by Rach 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello insecure confused chick. U are suffering from regular chick syndroms.
2007-01-14 07:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go talk to him like he did for you.
2007-01-14 07:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by CHUCK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋