Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

other than telling him that you will put out later?

2007-01-14 07:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffi Poodle Pie 69 2 in Singles & Dating

This is rather embarrassing! I went to a party with a girl I really liked and she was topless and dancing in front of few guy-friends and well I got really upset and kinda cried (I was drunk) because I felt they were using her as an object, one said to take that shirt off. I am ashamed I even gave a tear. She slapped me and said "You are making me look like a whore." I basically cried more lmao so embarrassing. Do women hate emotional and nice guys?

2007-01-14 07:01:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Good men are everywhere. The real question is, when will women grow up and start to appreciate good men? Instead, women would rather date insecure, rude "bad boys" in an attempt to change them.

Why is this?

2007-01-14 07:01:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Working out questions? Am I on the right track?
I started working out again, targeting two core groups every other day. My second week in, I am missing today's workout. Can I double it up tomorrow? Should it effect me?

I was supposed to work on my legs and tris and do 30 minutes of cardio and 200 crunches
Does that mean tomorrow I have to double up on everything?

Also, sometimes i do the reps of 10, then go to 8, then 7, or switch off to 3 reps of 10 if im comfortable with the weight.

Does that mean that Im teasing my muscles?

I am 6'1, 190 lbs but am trying to pack on muscle, possibly around 10 to 20 lbs and am using protein shakes and vitamins. When should I take the vitamins?

I also plan on doing an hour of yoga a week on one of my days off not at the gym to supplement my workout.

Any critiques, opinions, suggestions and advice are welcome.....

2007-01-14 07:00:15 · 2 answers · asked by Pep Streebeck 1 in Singles & Dating

Considering our needs etc, isit possible to supress emotional needs and erase them for a person? can women do this? just wondering as men are wired differently and i know they are emotionally detached at the best of times. I'm in a relationship where i have fun and want to experience (i'm a teenager) different things, but i feel i should be less emotional at this stage..how can i distance myself?

2007-01-14 07:00:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like 1 dude but he likes my friend! and won't get over her and he has liked her 4 like a year!! and i want him to like me!! so how do i get his to like me!?!?!?ok thanks 4 ur help!!!!

2007-01-14 07:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by Summers Heat723 2 in Friends

i just want a couple of friends,its too cold to go anywhere.

2007-01-14 06:59:55 · 9 answers · asked by kikki 1 in Friends

My friend and I are super close usually. It seems like whenever he gets a new girl friend he is afraid to be around me and ignores me. He hasnt really talked to me or hung out with me when shes around. Why is he doing this? He wont touch me, hug me or talk really. I was alone in the hall and he comes up and talks to me. I don't know whats wrong we are usually so close untill he became involved with this girl!

2007-01-14 06:59:18 · 5 answers · asked by shiningstars 2 in Friends

i would change me and my ex-girlfriend meeting. she has brought nothing but stress. and me spending money to care for her when she was down.

2007-01-14 06:59:15 · 7 answers · asked by Blake 3 in Singles & Dating

MY BOYFRIEND DOESNT COMPLIMENT ME ANY MORE AND IT HURTS. BUT STRANGERS COMPLIMENT ME . IS THERE A REASON OR AM I JUST OBSESSING OVER NOTHING

2007-01-14 06:59:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She states by not giving it to her that I am not there for her. I stated we are not marrried. She does not think it would be different, when i said it would be different, if things work and get married. She says I am unsupportive.

2007-01-14 06:59:12 · 14 answers · asked by boshie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She started shutting me out a few days ago. She wont say a single word to me. I have tried talking to her. We have 2 kids and she just locks herself in the bedroom till they go to bed and she still wont say a thing to me even when she does come out. If she does come out and see the kids she's fine with them but not me. I didnt even do anything wrong... that I know of. What should I do? The more I ask here the more angry she gets, but if I leave it alone she just withdraws more and more

2007-01-14 06:59:08 · 9 answers · asked by justme 1 in Family

In a discussion with a group of male friends, one experienced fellow says only about 1/3 of women really enjoy giving oral sex, 1/3 tolerate giving it, but don't necessarily like it, and 1/3 do not do it at all. What has been your experience ?

2007-01-14 06:58:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to wait till marriage to lose my virginity, to the person I love, but I’m confused by what people are saying, because their saying don’t wait till marriage sexual compatibility is important, which I agree with, but isn’t it their anyway when your in love? Because how can you be in love with someone and not be sexually compatible?

2007-01-14 06:58:17 · 12 answers · asked by Shadow 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there's this guy at my school.. and we have talked a few times, and i'm pretty sure he likes me because he is always staring at me, and he has flirted with me a few times, etc. i would really like to go out with him (i like him a lot), but what is the best way to go about this? should i tell him i like him or should i just see what happens? and if i were to tell him, how exactly should i? i'm not really good at this kind of thing... and also, how do i let him know that i'm interested?

2007-01-14 06:56:55 · 13 answers · asked by Brittany J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 06:56:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

About a girl yeah a girl?
i am 15 and there is a girl who i think is really beautiful.about a month i introduced myself and started to speak to her like for two minutes once every three days . i cant really explain how she is but she doesnt talk that much but it isnt like she doesnt talk at all since then all i could think about was her and everytime i spoke to her she smiled and was very friendly. but now i feel like i am loosing her she is getting bored of me she doesnt smile that much around me .is not that i said anything dumb or stupid but i want her to like me , make her laugh and make feel more comfotable around me and i want to get closer to her and be her friend first and guys like me dont usually get girls like her.im not ready to tell her how i feel just yet but i do wanna get close to her. tommorow is school what should i say to her and do

2007-01-14 06:55:54 · 12 answers · asked by Josh j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 06:55:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you get the idea...that took me 3 times as long and the ones that used "da" instead of the and Th@...I'm not old. I am 20 and find it rediculous. ALSO CAPS LOCK IS NOT NECCESARY.

2007-01-14 06:54:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this guy who is staying in my garage(wheres hes not supposed to be because hes a drug addict) I like him attracted to him, weve had sex but only a few times, but wont touch me no more ignores me. Every time I try to stand my ground with him, Like whats your intensions, he gets all defensive, and tells me that if I were the one to get sober there might be something between us. Ok so I've been takeing the neccesary steps to get healthy, I think now through time its just a bid to stay in my garage and he really isnt all that attracted to me, Im confused because I want to be a good person and help those out in need, but how long can this disfuction go on? Im feeling trapped, angry, and hurt by this guy, he just keeps given little pieces of bones. How do I tell this person(wich I've tried many times, but hes a great manipulater) That enough is enough? Oh did I mention that he has not contributed a dime to live here, and its been five months.

2007-01-14 06:54:04 · 4 answers · asked by samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

We just got married and he has a child from a previous relationship. He pays 400 a month and I was just wondering if the court takes into consideration he will have more kids. Don't get me wrong-I LOVE that little girl and i definently feel he should pay some money! But i dont know how we would make it with our own kids!!

2007-01-14 06:53:18 · 3 answers · asked by mandak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been recieving $47 per week in child support. That at the time was 20% of his income weekly. When he got a better job I requested a modification. 6 months later the new weekly amount is $179 per week. Plus backpay. He is upset that I will now recieve $430 a month. He says he cannot support his family, wife (who doesn't work) and 1 year old. He filed a motion against the order. And threatened he would forced to quit his job. His motion could take 6 months. He says our child doesn't need that much money to survive. What is everyones view? His sister is on his side? My friends and family see it my way? 20% is the law.

2007-01-14 06:52:41 · 11 answers · asked by SerbMex 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I flirt a bit and stuff yeah, but why would that make guys think Im a sl ut then? I know I always have to be the centre of attention or the best lookin girl around, but thats just normal tenage girl stuff anyway.
Im not goin to stop wearing low or tight tops, they suit me...but what else can I do to stop the guys from just concentrating on that? Like what else can I do to stop them thinkin Im such a sl ut?

And I cant change who I am, but a few helpful pointers wouldnt go amiss?!?
I know I just asked this qustion minutes ago but...

2007-01-14 06:52:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm physically disabled...
No one has ever liked me...
I mean, no one has ever asked me out or anything...
I REALLY want a girlfriend...
I really do :-(
But, all that I try doesn't work...

Extra Information:
I can't talk that well to people who haven't been around me as long, so I use my laptop to talk, meaning, I type or write things to talk...
Also, I have a slight drooling problem, so I can't, should I say don't, want to eat or do anything like where I open my mouth with ANY girl by me...

That's my situation...
I don't know what to do...
Please help me...

2007-01-14 06:51:59 · 7 answers · asked by The Dynasty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-14 06:50:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What age should i let my kids start dating

2007-01-14 06:50:47 · 15 answers · asked by surfing_gymnast 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 06:49:53 · 7 answers · asked by bluecat90us 1 in Singles & Dating

We went on ONE date and slept together. She started giving me mixed signals after that; telling me she likes me a lot, wanting to hang out more, BUT standing me up for our second date.

I never called her after that. I thought it was disrespectful of her and I have this thing where I don't tolerate people disrespectful behavior.

Still I feel the urge to call her and whish her a happy birthday. I PROBALY want to do that to see if there's something there. (is that wrong?)

But wouldn't that be kind of a wussy thing to do to call a girl you slept with only once and whish her a happy b day a couple months after she stood you up?

2007-01-14 06:49:39 · 13 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

He tells u 2 go 2 ************* on a subject so not related 2 that i think he is like YAHOO SPAMMER X or something and he's saying that its not a scam well he's getting on my nerves who else is with me

2007-01-14 06:49:15 · 3 answers · asked by softballchick_4348 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Same as above, where are you at now and where would you like to be. Me I'm in Tulsa, and I like it here.

2007-01-14 06:49:10 · 9 answers · asked by brp_13 4 in Marriage & Divorce