About a girl yeah a girl?
i am 15 and there is a girl who i think is really beautiful.about a month i introduced myself and started to speak to her like for two minutes once every three days . i cant really explain how she is but she doesnt talk that much but it isnt like she doesnt talk at all since then all i could think about was her and everytime i spoke to her she smiled and was very friendly. but now i feel like i am loosing her she is getting bored of me she doesnt smile that much around me .is not that i said anything dumb or stupid but i want her to like me , make her laugh and make feel more comfotable around me and i want to get closer to her and be her friend first and guys like me dont usually get girls like her.im not ready to tell her how i feel just yet but i do wanna get close to her. tommorow is school what should i say to her and do
2007-01-14 06:55:54 · 12 answers · asked by Josh j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her and tell her how you feel.
Good Luck
2007-01-14 07:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, young love!
You are obviously infatuated with this young lady which is normal at your age. This will be a learning experience for you. Being attracted to someone is cool but if you read your statements about her, she may not be the person for you. You need to figure out the things about her that would make a good friend for you. Her looks won't create a friendship. If she is not smiling or giving you a response you want then you guys may not be compatible as friends.
Also, THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT, you made a comment about "guys like me don't usually get girls like her". You must feel that this girl is above the level of friend you normally associate with. Friendships should be equal, in other words, she should value you being her friend as much as you value her. You should ALWAYS command the same worth from your friends as you are giving out. Never feel that you should be happy just to have her as a friend. She should value you as a person too.
2007-01-14 15:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by Victor H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to hang out and be friends. Start off slow and then after hanging out see where things go. Right now you have a crush now make a move instead of just speaking. She might be ready for you to make your move and in a month you havent so maybe now she is thinking you dont like her.
2007-01-14 15:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really interested in this girl and you want her to notice you and start smiling at you more, then become as desirable to her as possible. Let her decide to want to get close to you. Put on your best clothes, act as confident as ever, and just be the best "you" that you can be when you're around her.
2007-01-14 15:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sybelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to give you the standard just be your self, but you could try talking to her longer and a little more often. she may not even realize you are interested if you are being so settle and if you make her uncomfortable she will let you know real fast. now don't go up in her space and in her face and all.good luck
2007-01-14 15:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by instig8tor682000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know any of her intrests? If she likes football for example, than say something like "Did you see the game last night?" and before you know it the conversation will be flowing. If you don't know any of her intrests say something about class like "This class is such a bore" "I wish they'd hire a new teacher" or something like that.
2007-01-14 15:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ellen the Estonian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding an interesting bit of trivia online. Surprise her with something she doesn't know.
2007-01-14 15:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to be your self around her. I like guys who aren't afraid to be goofy and funny as long as their not pretending to be someone else!
2007-01-14 15:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by becca p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what inside your heart.. maybe she feel the same but she is shy don't lose her because u afraid and don't want.. don't wait for tomorrow, yesterday is gone and today is almost finish then tomorrow do it.
2007-01-14 14:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tomorrow is Martin L. King day, are you sure you have school?
2007-01-14 15:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by Gorgeous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋