Good men are everywhere. The real question is, when will women grow up and start to appreciate good men? Instead, women would rather date insecure, rude "bad boys" in an attempt to change them.
Why is this?
2007-01-14 07:01:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I married a total nerd. TOTAL. They are the BEST husbands in that they dont cheat, they usually are very eduated with careers, they are good with money.
Bad boys do nothing for me......I chose wisely. Its all in the choosing.
But, I do have to admit... there are a lot of lamo's out there that I came across as a single and would never have dated them. I kept my nose to the grind until I found one worthy.
2007-01-14 07:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by SunValleyLife 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Like the saying goes "nice guys finish last"
Well I found a nice guy( thank God) and all my friends are stuck with losers!
THey find these hard headed guys at the bars and clubs!
I mean what do they expect? But they never learn and presume as is and end up getting hurt!
Women need to stop looking for men in the wrong places and start looking under their nose....
like when they go shopping, the bank, the grocerie store, friends of friends....
Looks! Most women that have trouble finding these nice men are all about looks instead of personality......
2007-01-14 15:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're right, in most of what you asked, but, not all women are like that. I hate the "bad boys" because they don't give a damn about the girl, he just wants to use the girl for a variety of things, such as sex, he uses the girl for attention, etc. You are right, there are a bunch of nice men out there, but most women don't seem to think so. They are usually too impatient to find the right guy. But, you got to remember to, there are some men out there who think that all women are untrustworthy sluts who just use men as well. Well, that's not true either. Everybody is different. Just ignore all of the whining from some of the women out there. Don't worry, there are some who grow up and mature....you just gotta find them.
2007-01-14 15:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman who is dating "bad boys in an attempt to change them", is dealing with major insecurities in herself. So, don't worry about it. That's not the kind of woman you want as a man; too much baggage. Also, the older the woman is that is doing that, the worse the baggage.
2007-01-14 15:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by jenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women say that because the only guys that they fall for are the "insecure, rude bad boys". And those relationships rarely last long.
2007-01-14 15:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because some women have no direction and are looking for the "good man" to take them there...then whine about the guys they are with for not taking them where they need to be in life....my 2 cents worth.
2007-01-14 15:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by radarjet67 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know where you aer getting that idea from but I never seem to find good guys. Always the bad ones that lies and break my heart. It could be just me that I'm looking in the wrong places. But i'd like to see more of the guys that ur talking about.
2007-01-14 15:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by chickidy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its really hard 2 find good men in big and small cities i think u r one of the ppl who can't get a date. Us women aren't the ones whining its u
2007-01-14 15:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by softballchick_4348 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
its how they are... they wont go for the good man until their in their late 30s and really desperate for a husband...
girls want a hot sexy bad boy rather then an ok good boy.
2007-01-14 15:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For the same reason that men do. Your question really can be used totally in reverse for us women. It appears to me a lot of men like the naughty girls too. So, it is, what it is. ~~~~
2007-01-14 15:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋