I flirt a bit and stuff yeah, but why would that make guys think Im a sl ut then? I know I always have to be the centre of attention or the best lookin girl around, but thats just normal tenage girl stuff anyway.
Im not goin to stop wearing low or tight tops, they suit me...but what else can I do to stop the guys from just concentrating on that? Like what else can I do to stop them thinkin Im such a sl ut?
And I cant change who I am, but a few helpful pointers wouldnt go amiss?!?
I know I just asked this qustion minutes ago but...
2007-01-14 06:52:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You make no sense, you admit to flaunting your chest but don't want guys to notice them? Change the way you dress!
2007-01-14 06:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You flirt you.! There is no need for it.
Flirter's are those "who can't get any cause they don't have the assets to attract the attention."
Normal teenage girl stuff? Well maybe what you consider normal is slutty.
I have had girl friends that were endowed as richly as you indicate, but there were those, that dressed conservatively(buttoned right to the neck) and those who left almost nothing to the imagination. Personally, the buttoned up chick was hotter (as it was left to the imagination, and our minds can create wonderous images).
You can't change who you are? You mean you are too lazy to change who you are and what you do.
You act like you want it, and you are gonna get it(whether you consent or not)
Change
2007-01-14 07:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by ButwhatdoIno? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have the same problem when I wear tight spandex pants to the mall and my large male "assets" bulge out. What can I do to stop the girls from concentrating on that and look me in the eyes and respect me for the nice guy that I am?
2007-01-14 07:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of you are what you eat? Well how about you are what you wear. I am a big girla nd present myself in a way that I hide or say conceal my weight to make myself respectful. I see girls who are bigger than me that wears tight shirts, low cut blouses with their breast just wanting to jump out. Now my opinion is that they are not respecting thierselves and asking for attention from men.
If you like the way you dress and are comfortable with it then good for you. You will just have to accept what comes along with it. Guys do not look at the inside of a girl, even more so with guys your age.
When I was in school. My best friend (and still is) dated out of her race when she was in the 7th grade and has never stopped. I was not dating in high school. By being that I hung out with her, I was also considered to date out of my race even though I was not dating anyone black or white.
Just be careful.
2007-01-14 07:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you hook up with random guys, then you should stop doing that, and go more for the smart girl thing. you can still flirt but start doing the 'an act of kindness per day' kinda thing. that tells guys that u are a kind and smart human being and not just the s*** that they think u are.
2007-01-14 07:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by Aicha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't going to like my answer, but if you would quit flaunting it all the time and quit dressing like a s*** then no one would think you were, i pity you ( i hope it dosen't happen) if your ever got breast cancer, what would you do? And i think you need to apply yourself in a positive way, like you concentrate on what other things (Like your mind) that can get their attention? It is good to feel good about yourself but not self centered, and you can be sexy without dressing trampy. And news break, you aren't going to always be the prettiest, beauty is skin deep also.
2007-01-14 07:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I by no skill encourage anybody to be someone they don't seem. notwithstanding accordingly, its all about presentation. you are able to make some ameliorations without replacing who you're. adult adult males are seen creatures, you're very verbal in a stimulating way. they in simple terms discern in case you communicate the communicate you should walk the walk. Their imaginations go wild,they commence chatting with their pals, and all of it receives exagerated. you're the only which suffers the undesirable rep. So I say be careful what you ask for. you in effortless words ought to get it.
2016-11-23 18:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like u r a sl_ut. just quit acting like one. I'm a teen, and a girl, i have plenty of guys who like me, and a wonderful bf, but i dont have show off my ti_ts and flirt to get attention from them. I'm sry but i know a girl like u and the only way to fix it is to stop being a sl_ut.
2007-01-14 07:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wear the shirts and skirts, than guys WILL think you a ****. Period.
The only way to change your image is to change yourself. "We must be the change we want to see in the world" -Gandi
2007-01-14 06:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what guys think its the girls that will give you problems every time. Good luck
2007-01-14 09:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by darthdread13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋