I'm physically disabled...
No one has ever liked me...
I mean, no one has ever asked me out or anything...
I REALLY want a girlfriend...
I really do :-(
But, all that I try doesn't work...
Extra Information:
I can't talk that well to people who haven't been around me as long, so I use my laptop to talk, meaning, I type or write things to talk...
Also, I have a slight drooling problem, so I can't, should I say don't, want to eat or do anything like where I open my mouth with ANY girl by me...
That's my situation...
I don't know what to do...
Please help me...
2007-01-14 06:51:59 · 7 answers · asked by The Dynasty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't make anyone like another person they will just do that themselves
2007-01-14 06:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and be honest. There is someone for everyone. Disabilities have nothing to do with your personality. If you're a nice guy, it will happen. FYI: Not being able to communicate well with new people happens to ALL of us. Sometimes you never outgrow it, sometimes you do. I myself am 50 and still shy till I get to know someone better. I wish I could be like others sometimes. By others I say the really outgoing ones. I met a woman about 3 yrs. ago that acted like she knew me for 20 yrs. when I first met her. Really bubbly and friendly. Really put me at ease and I had no trouble talking to her about anything right from the start. But, that's not me...sooooo GOOD LUCK...BE PATIENT
GOOD things come to those who wait. Waiting for the "right" person to come along beats getting your heart broke over and over anyway. Read some of the letters in her to see what I mean. Same old stuff...over and over.
The world is cruel sometimes to people with disabilities. People are afraid of what they don't understand and tend to ignore or make fun of it. Either way, it's just plain ignorant. AGAIN, read some of these letteres under relationships. People without disabilities have a hard time too with relationships, especially when younger.
2007-01-14 15:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask her out and tell her u wont take no 4 an anwer but if u dont want to do that then u could ask her out when u get better or something but if she still does not talk to u maybe she does not want to be ur girl friend so I guess u should find another girl to ask out because I have a friend on a wheel chair cuz she broke her leg when she went iceskating and no one judges her because she is in a wheel chair.If ur friends dont talk to u then maybe they are not ur real and true friends.Hope this helps a little.
2007-01-14 15:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by miley_fan9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to make anyone like you. You have to be yourself and they will like you for that. I am certain about this. You will find someone for you but maybe right now is not the time. I always have to have a bf, I never go single for long at all. Think of this way, you have freedom right now and if you get a girlfriend that is someone to weigh you down. Enjoy your life, Flirt a little, start making friends and then when the time is right with a gal, make your move. If you believe it will happen just keep faith. Good Luck!
2007-01-14 14:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just gonna have to have some courage to ask a girl out. the worse thing she could say is no. then you ask her why she said no. Its not your fault that your like this but some day a girl will look past all that and like you for the who you are inside .
2007-01-14 14:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by alexia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u really like be nice to her and if she is a snob don t like her
2007-01-14 14:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be nice to her and be funny.
2007-01-14 14:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by melmellopez 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋