I have this guy who is staying in my garage(wheres hes not supposed to be because hes a drug addict) I like him attracted to him, weve had sex but only a few times, but wont touch me no more ignores me. Every time I try to stand my ground with him, Like whats your intensions, he gets all defensive, and tells me that if I were the one to get sober there might be something between us. Ok so I've been takeing the neccesary steps to get healthy, I think now through time its just a bid to stay in my garage and he really isnt all that attracted to me, Im confused because I want to be a good person and help those out in need, but how long can this disfuction go on? Im feeling trapped, angry, and hurt by this guy, he just keeps given little pieces of bones. How do I tell this person(wich I've tried many times, but hes a great manipulater) That enough is enough? Oh did I mention that he has not contributed a dime to live here, and its been five months.
2007-01-14 06:54:04 · 4 answers · asked by samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you both have problems
2007-01-14 06:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him, If your trying to get better then you dont need him to set you back. Keep things as uncomplicated as possible. Don't enter a relationship until your life is back on track.
2007-01-14 07:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Effie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say to give it a while..and let him think about things? idkI dont really understand the relationship that well. I say get into a relationship and maybe make him jealous? lol idk. just a suggestion..because guys usually want you more if they see you are attracted to another guy.
2007-01-14 06:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out
2007-01-14 06:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋