This is rather embarrassing! I went to a party with a girl I really liked and she was topless and dancing in front of few guy-friends and well I got really upset and kinda cried (I was drunk) because I felt they were using her as an object, one said to take that shirt off. I am ashamed I even gave a tear. She slapped me and said "You are making me look like a whore." I basically cried more lmao so embarrassing. Do women hate emotional and nice guys?
2007-01-14 07:01:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a time and place for everything.
That wasn't it
2007-01-14 07:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, DO NOT change the way you are. You will find a woman who is worthy of you and who will love you the way you are. I, myself, hate a**hole guys who think they are all that and who are players. Since i am a nice gal myself, i look for a guy who is sweet, nice, honest, and worthy of my time. You will find her. Don't worry. In time, you will find her. Women tend to be attracted to bad boy types, but not all women. I am sometimes attracted to that too, but when looking for a relationship, i stick with the sweet, sincere type. So continue being your nice self and a woman will come along who will appreciate that and not take it for granted. I hope i helped you a little...
2016-05-24 01:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't, but there's a time to be emotional. At a party with all your friends is not one of them. If you had laughed it off, no one would have thought it was so serious. but she's right, you made it worse by crying.
save your tears for a really good film or a private moment, not for a party where everyone's having a good time. if she wants to take her shirt off and be a whore, that's her decision.
2007-01-14 07:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only real men are not afraid to show their emotions in public. She was acting like a whore. If the shoe fits......
I'd find a woman who appreciates you. This one obviously doesn't appeciate or deserve you.
I don't think I would want to cry over this situation though. SHE brought it on herself and you just felt sorry for her. I would have been more pissed off because she did this than felt sorry for her. Everyone is different though. If we weren't the world would be SOOOO boring.
2007-01-14 07:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends. I really like emotional guys, if i were that girl i would be greatful to have a guy that see's that some guys do use women as objects. my bf now doesnt understand that, and i wish he did more. so i guess it depends on the girl, u need to find a girl that feels similar to the way i do about emotional guys.
2007-01-14 07:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that girl made herself look like a whore. Plus I find a guy very attractive if he is really emotional and cries its really sexy in a guy. Sounds like your a keeper for most girls. Just don't go after the girls thatwon't to og topless thne they do not find you attractive. But I love my men emotional and crying on my shoulder its really sexy. So don't worry you sound like a very attractive guy. Besides women don't always want a tough guy we are also wanting a guy who is going to be their for us and who is willing to understand us. So please do me a favor and keep your emotional said because you sound really sexy.
2007-01-14 07:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by nonestopchick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say they hate them, but good girls or women period are mostly attracted to bad guys...the ones that are tough and manly. It's okay to have a "soft" side every now and then, but you have to make her feel safe and secure. She doesn't want to be with someone who is not going to have her back if you all get in a sticky situation and you just cry and run away...
2007-01-14 07:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by dangerously in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW~ No women don't hate emotional guys, but I think you handle that situation wrongly.
2007-01-14 07:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She made herself look like a whore. Stop drinking when you're around women. You can't hold your liquor.
2007-01-14 07:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i love them, i wish more guys would act like you did.it was sweet and caring. you shouldnt be ashamed of who you are. you sound wonderful and a very lucky girl will appreciate you one day.
2007-01-14 07:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋