i know its stupid because im 19
and hes 20
its just i love him so much and i dont want him out of my life
weve been on and off for years but yeah
idk i kno its stupid and id never act on it
but how do i get this idea out of my head
cuz im scared one day i will act on it
idk i know its all emotions but its scaring me how much i want a baby sometimes
2007-01-14 07:54:53 · 7 answers · asked by yourguardianangel88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i know men usually run once they hear the word baby
i guess i just wanted one anyways
and i figured if he was the one hed stay
and if not, then id have the baby atleast
i think about it and realize its all immature, so plz no answers telling me that it is, cuz i know that... but i just want to know how to get the idea out of my head.. thanks tho
2007-01-14 08:05:17 · update #1
well what can i say...i feel the same way too and i m 22 and he is 24 but still i want to have baby after marriage...i know its crazy how our emotions act sometimes...oh girl i totally know what u mean...BUT WAIT till u get married..
2007-01-14 08:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first it's never stupid to think that way. I will be 21 years old this year and i had my first child at 18 1/2 i will now be having my second one before im 21. which is ok, if you believe you can do it, but don't do it if you don't think he will stay because once men hear the word baby they usually run. Take care of yourself, and if you ever need someone to talk to email me at avillakas@yahoo.com
2007-01-14 16:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A baby is hard work, be sure that is what you want when the time comes. Also try to remember (I'm not trying to be mean in any way) that a baby doesnt keep a relationship together.
If it's meant to be then it's meant to be.
2007-01-14 16:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I been thinking that way for years. I think its a normal thought in young adulthood.....but I would advise to wait a little while why your still young enough to party and make 100% sure that this is the man for u
2007-01-14 16:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mareezi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep reminding yourself how stupid it would be if you had a baby. And how it would change your life forever. And how you'd have to grow up very, very quickly, and your life would never really be about you again, but about the baby.
2007-01-14 15:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a good feeling to have, just complete your studies find a good job, and than have your baby.
2007-01-14 16:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be married first
2007-01-14 16:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋