Okayy... well. I liked this guy for a REALLY long time and he had a girlfriend. But, even so... all of my friends wanted me to wait for him and her to end so that we could be together saying we were "perfect" EVERYONE said this. well, last friday i was at my best friends house when he called me and said he wanted to chill so we invited him over too. when he came my friend dared me to kiss him even though he had a girlfriend... so i said "No!! you kiss him" trying to keep cool so he wouldnt think i told her to dare me that. so about fifteen minutes later SHE DOES!!! She kissed the guy i have liked longer than anybody!!! && she has called me crying and begging me to forgive her. He was telling me that he has no feelings for her but he has broken up with his girlfriends and is single. I know we will get together, but should i forgive my friend??
2007-01-14 07:57:45 · 17 answers · asked by curry_lover4ever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Mixed messages... all of this is what people i know tell me... && some even say that i shouldnt get with him because she is such a whore && her mouth has been on him... this will be about a YEAR that i've liked him... how could she DO that????
2007-01-14 08:06:53 · update #1
Also, she KNEW i was being sarcastic!! she even said that afterwards but claimed she was in the moment... soo!! but the thing is she had a boyfriend ((who broke up with her because of this)) && i think that is the only reason she apologized... because she couldnt stand losing a bf && a bff in one day. so...
2007-01-14 08:08:38 · update #2
also, this is not the first time its happened. i let the first one slide, because she didnt kiss him ((that I know of)) she just higged and held hands and everything but a kiss before i b****ed them both out && that was once that i have NOT forgotten about!!
2007-01-14 08:10:38 · update #3
KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE, BUT YOUR ENEMIES CLOSER??
FRENEMIES??
2007-01-14 08:11:18 · update #4
i watched it happen... she kissed him.
he looked shocked
2007-01-14 08:16:54 · update #5
Yes!!!!! You should forgive!!!!!
2007-01-14 08:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bil B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you DEFINITLY should forgive her. Believe it or not, it was partly your fault. You told to kiss him which was basically saying that it's okay for her to kiss him even though you like him. If she was crying on the phone and begging you to forgive her, that means that she really didnt notice what happend and that you really were just joking. You should really forgive her to be a good friend, but if she does it again, i dont think you should because then you know that she's just trying to get all the guys you like. Hope i helped!
Melissa =]
2007-01-14 08:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A similar situation happened to me, and I did end up forgiving her. If you go back awhile with your friend, and you honestly think she is being sincere in her apology, it would be my advice to forgive her. Friends stay forever, but guys come and go. If she has been a good friend besides this mistake, forgive, but don't forget. Make sure she knows how it made you feel and to never let it happen again. If it does, lose her.
2007-01-14 08:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would because you did tell her to kiss him. She may not have realized the hint that you were being sarcastic (were you?)
and taken you seriously. I'm sure that she did not mean to make you sad or anything. Friends forgive!
2007-01-14 08:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. It seems like she's very sorry and was probably just acting really dumb, but realizes it now. If you really want to keep your friendship with her, I'd say forgive her. But talk to her and tell her how much it hurt you.
2007-01-14 08:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you said "No!! you kiss him" That was your fault. Its not such a big deal. Forgive her and move on. She is your best friend don't throw it away on something as trivial as this. I wish I had a best friend. Don't take your friendship foregranted.
2007-01-14 08:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm this is confusing ok well since you told your friend to go ahead then that makes it your fault but shes funking stupid no offense what she did is messed up she knew you liked him and she did it anyways and he had a fricken girlfriend so now he just cheated on hes girlfriend with your friend i hope your friend gets her *** wooped because shes a ******* slut! no offense and no dont hook up with him because he cannot be trusted if he told his girlfirned that your friend kissed him then maybe you should go out with him but if he didnt dont even try cuz this whole thing will happen again learn your lesson from this experience dont forgive!dont ignore this
2007-01-14 08:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who stabs you in the back isn't a friend and probably never was. Move on and find someone who will value you as a friend and person. This person is a user and abuser and unworthy of your friendship.
2007-01-14 08:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to you.
I wouldn't forgive her for a long time. But that's just me.
If you do forgive her. keep her at a distance.
2007-01-14 08:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. If she is really your freind you would forgive her, and i mean seriously she was begging you to forgive her...WHY NOY??? why dont you have feelings for her, she i9s your freind you know. anyway it is your descision... if you feel like you want to forgive her just forget about and forgive her...
2007-01-14 08:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by mariah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. You did tell her to kiss him. She probably feels bad
2007-01-14 08:03:16 · answer #11 · answered by bluecolouredflames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋