Ok, there is this guy I was talking to that I know, but I didn't want to tell him who I was...I've been talking to him for a while, but I still wont' tell him. He keeps guessing, and he even told me that if I told him by the end of the night, I could ask him "2 very very personal questions, no matter how bad they are, and if he doesn't answer them, next time I see him I can punch him in the face."
He even tried top get me to go skating with him just so he could figure it out. I don't really plan on telling him, but I like talking to him. What do I do?
2007-01-14 07:53:19 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeahg, and does all that make me wierd?
2007-01-14 07:53:38 · update #1
I talk to him anonymosouly (WOW THAT IS SPELLED WAYYY WRONG!!!) because he acts like a jerk around his friends when I talk to his face. HE is much more human over the net, which is ironic
2007-01-14 07:59:11 · update #2
Very interesting Question…First of all don’t be get upset, you are not crazy or weird at all and its ok. Girls do that ;)…
Let him keep guessing for a while; believe me, after some days he will offer lot more then these 2 Qs. But I was thinking, why you don’t want to tell him?
I know you are not admitting it though, but deep inside you started liking him and scared, that, what will be his reaction. What IF he doesn’t like you? Am I right? So if it’s the same situation, then what I think is ….did you ever go for fishing? If not ask some one, who is the best. So if you want him to get hooked. Wait give him some time to… he will be all yours. Did you see “You’ve Got Mail”…?
And if you are just passing time.please stop it right now.
He is and will fall in for you so dont hurt someone..You had enough fun . and if you really like him .......Then what else i can say...Good luck, All the best ;)
2007-01-14 08:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Farrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing games dear Heart and I do not think you should tell him. The point is that you are having harmless fun and generally speaking, people like some mystery and it makes you intriguing. If you know the person you just tell him so and you prefer to keep having fun that way. Some people though would use any trick in the book to get what they want. I presume you are referring to chatting on the internet. This is not a crazy person's question. On the contrary, you are a very imaginative and creative person. You could be a writer of fiction. Have you ever thought of that? You could write short stories with suspense, etc...The potential is there! In this question, you have all the material to create a story and I bet it would be interesting to read the way this would all lead to!
Good luck
Have a beautiful day.
2007-01-14 08:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is you are young---it is a game that kids play--but irritating and frustrating. Please see it as such and stop it--just go talk to the guy--that doesn't make it a committment. Now the punch in the face statement clinches it---please grow up. Maybe you need to stop hiding behind the phone or computer...maybe you have homework to do...maybe you need to learn how to communicate properly. Whatever---please get past it and have a really nice life.
2007-01-14 08:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you toying with him? If you like him, tell him who you are so maybe you two can date. I'm sorry but this is just really immature. Be honest with him and yourself or stop talking to him.
2007-01-14 07:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by RitzFitz29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see if you really don't want him to know don't tell him, but really why won't you? It seems kind of mean, but take the deal or try to get a better one. Either way tell him sometime cuz it's kind of mean if you ask me.
2007-01-14 07:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by blmr0123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u r not weired thats cool dont tell him now leave him 2 discover out and trust me if he really carries he is going to figure out who u are and if not after along time u r going to tell him ur self
2007-01-14 07:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by yamnona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to tell him than don't, this doesn't make you weird it's actually a great tactic to get a guy to like you, your kinda playing hard to get, which guys love, if u like him keep doing it, if not just tell him your name...unless u really don't want to, it's your choice.
Good luck, whatever you decide. :)
2007-01-14 07:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by darkfallenangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy, then you should tell him the Truth how you feel and dont get embrassed. Be yourself!
2007-01-14 07:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by MiMi<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy mind games!! What's the point. It sounds a little immature.
2007-01-14 07:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both should stop playing games...if you are interested in him, just tell him who you are. And no...i don't think this makes you crazy.
2007-01-14 07:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋