Boyfriend of 8 months decided that he wasn't feeling the relationship anymore and we talked it out and concluded that it was over. I went to get my stuff from his house and we ended up sleeping together and I cried, he held me, then he said that he loved me but we are officially seperated. But he wants to be CLOSE friends and go out, talk on the phone, have sex, spin the night, everything from when we were together. I realize its over and I've accepted that, so should I do this?
2007-01-14 07:14:34 · 10 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-14 07:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to keep sleeping with him if he isn't 'feeling the relationship'? What happens when you find another guy, do you think he'll be okay with you sleeping with your ex, even though you are not 'in a relationship' with him? Tell your ex that you respect yourself more than that and that he doesn't get to be single and still be 'friends with benefits' with you. Go find a guy who will treat you with the love and respect that you deserve.
2007-01-14 15:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by mrjayride 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your broken if you shouldn't kiss him sleep with him or spend the night. It will wind up making you hurt. He is being unfair. It sounds like he is just using you as a booty call untill he can find a new girl. Save yourself the heartbreak and say no hun.
2007-01-14 15:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by shiningstars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the guy doesn't want a relationship, doesn't want to spend money on you, but figures sex would still be a good idea and you are thinking about it. If you just want to be a booty call, you are there.
2007-01-14 15:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by brews 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you? Exaclty, there's no justified answer for it.....Why are you worth sleeping with but not worth having a proper relationship with?? i frankly can't even believe that he asked you to do that!!!
2007-01-14 15:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still sleeping with him without the relationship, then what you have is a boytoy and you are his F@#* Toy. Do you want that.
2007-01-14 15:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep sleeping with him until you finally get over him. He wants to have his cake and eat it to, and you keep bringing him a sweet slice of cake for him to frost......
2007-01-14 15:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to be kidding! break up means breaking ties ALL Ties He is the classic example of having his cake and eating it too!! don't be his fool anymore Stay Away!
2007-01-14 15:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke up soo if he doesn't feel the way you feel about your relationship then stop spending time with him. find somebody else..
2007-01-14 15:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Abercrombie Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL....what's so different about your relationship prior to breaking up?
2007-01-14 15:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by radarjet67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋