It's weird. I'm always the outspoken,goofy, crazy, or loud one. But when I'm around a new guy I get so shy! I can't even look him in the eyes. If they ask to dance, I'll run away. No literally RUN AWAY! What can I do?
2007-01-14 07:16:15 · 10 answers · asked by Nerds Rule! 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself and don't worry about it.
2007-01-14 07:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk a common interest topics to guys around you. Dont think about your shyness. first stop thinking that people recognise you as a shy girl. Peoples' judgement about you makes you feel more shy. So, pretend as though you are not shy, within days or weeks your shyness runs away.
Trying dreaming yourself dancing with a guy whom you know .Try dreaming it for a week and then meet him up.
I bet you will dance with him casually.
It really works. That is how you make your sub conscious mind aware of the requirement of your conscious mind.
2007-01-14 07:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this should help :)
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Join clubs. You will meet more people and feel confident!
Remember, you have nothing to worry about so just go up and talk to a boy, any boy. Little by little, you will find that you are not so shy around boys anymore!
A great way to talk with boys from your class or clubs is via instant messenger such as MSN or AIM. Its a lot less scary than talking face to face and it will help you build up your friendship so that it is easier to talk when you next see each other.
Go up to a boy your age that you see. Choose one at random. Start up a conversation. if you blow it, you have made your mistakes with a boy you don't particularly care about. But if it goes great, maybe you will make a new friend. In any case, you will learn a little something about communicating with boys and this will help you to build up your confidence.
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2007-01-14 07:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of him this way that you don't care if he likes you or not. Think of dancing with guys as unimportant and if they dance too close just pull away and walk away. You don't have to make them happy and you don't need to please everybody.
Now, if you are younger than 16 keep running away.
2007-01-14 07:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more optimistic. There is nothing to lose if guy ask you for a dance, you can only progres or if you are'nt good dencer ask him to do something else
2007-01-14 07:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Psycho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eliminate Social Anxiety Shyness : http://SocialAnxiety.uzaev.com/?JBMJ
2016-06-20 21:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Freddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the guy asks you to dance... dance doing what you are afraid of doing is the bast way to get over your fears
2007-01-14 07:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by ihearthim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey .. i used to be exactly like you .. i think you will just grow out of that stage... you'll find hes the one really goofin around and is trying to impress you .. you just have to learn how to react x.
2007-01-14 07:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by the_heaven_dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just force yourself not to be shy. Just do it.
2007-01-14 07:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no wut u mean! just be yourself, and pretend hes jsut like your girlfriends, and he'll probably respect you for acting yourself, instead of the girls who act fake
2007-01-14 07:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by oliviahh07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋