ok last night had a couple of drinks too many .told this guy that i have been seeing that i liked him a lot ..he then announced he had been dating another woman as he only wants a casual thing..anyway i kind of got mad and shouted a bit ..today he say,s we need to put our cards on the table .he,s picking me up in 20 minutes for this chat ..do i listen and then walk away with dignity and not say anything ......help ???
2007-01-14 07:05:19 · 25 answers · asked by hawthorn330 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i think you should walk away with dignity..it will make him wonder why you are acting so mature and in control of yourself and he'll accidently start to want you
2007-01-14 07:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by xoheidixo10 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him you're sorry for your outburst but he should have made it clearer that he was seeing other people. The fact that he is seeing others should already give you the red light. Find someone who wants what you want, if you have to persuade someone to be with you it will never work. Also don't get mad again just tell him you got your wires crossed about the two of you and thought he was interested, as it is not the case your going to start dating other guys too!
2007-01-14 07:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Smoochy Poochy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Really babe, He's not worth it! If you want the casual thing then feel free to go ahead but your worth so much more and if you like him as much as you thought you did last night you wont want to keep it casual, go out, listen to what he has to say then come back and open a bottle of wine!
2007-01-14 07:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by laura_545 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen. Walk away with dignity.
2007-01-14 07:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen the Estonian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you had a nice time but want more, and that as he doesn't feel the same YOU think you should call it a day. Thank him and leave. Then move on. Don't bad mouth him.
If the other woman wants the two timing toad, then let her have him! He will cheat on her (again)...
2007-01-14 07:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Finlay S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a casual thing also? Put in your balance your priorities, want to respect and be respected? Next time count your drinks :) and most of all: open your eyes and your ears before to open....
Remember: you get back what you give.
2007-01-14 07:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by howlme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as he is picking you up and has said you need to talk i would listen to what he has to say. if he has been seeing lots of women recently then is he really the type of guy you want? not being funny but if he has been dating other women then he prob not interested in you. better to save your friendship then take a chance ruining it for the sake of a sexual one
2007-01-14 07:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by adamscottlucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicating is the best way... Tell him how you feel when you are sober and take it from there. Its good to be dumped in the biggening then to be dumped later down the road.
2007-01-14 07:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by Tony A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure listen then tell him you have someone else as well and walk away with shoulders held high.
2007-01-18 01:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by traceylill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to what hes got to say dont loose your temper and walk away with self respect dont let him sweet talk you into stayin in this relationship where you are just bein used find some one who is goin to respect you and care for you
2007-01-14 07:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by theoriginalbitch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋