ive been goin out with my boyfriend for 4 years, everything is fine and we dont argue usually, i love him.
then i have this friend, he has been going out with my best friend for 3 years. then tonight he said he fancys me, completly out of the blue, although i didnt notice something between us. there is a strange spark between us but i denied it when he asked me because nothing can ever happen, what can i say to him to make this better? what should i do?
2007-01-14 07:04:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean i DID notice something between us!
2007-01-14 07:04:42 · update #1
this guy is also one of my very good friends, we hang out alot and have been friends for over 5 years
2007-01-14 07:13:21 · update #2
homeartisan - what the hell are you on about? i didnt say i wanted to go with him!!! im jst kinda stuck in the middle and dont know if i should tell anyone about this??
2007-01-15 01:47:59 · update #3
Tell him that you won't cheat on your boyfriend, just like you wouldn't cheat on him if he was your boyfriend.
2007-01-14 07:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know straight out nothing can ever happen. Dont tell your best friend unless he persists. She'll only end up resenting you. In the future, just play it cool, and non-personal. Whatever you do, try not to be alone with him
2007-01-15 15:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by inlovewithwoody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you love your boyfriend. I wouldn't do anything that would jeopardize your friendship with your best friend and with your boyfriend. But if you're not happy with your boyfriend, then I would suggest acting on impulse with your feelings. It just depends on how he feels, because if you both don't have the same feelings for each other, then I wouldn't do anything.
2007-01-14 15:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a freaking crab!!! PLAYER! Your know you wanna f*ck him> Just by the thought of it and asking the question to the public your a sl*t!! I hope your boyfriend see this question. There should be no doubt in your mind that your going to play your man out. *****!
2007-01-14 15:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him you love your boyfriend very much. your very sorry, but you just dont see how it would go anywhere anyway. Tell him the truth
2007-01-14 15:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it would be wrong to steal from you Best Friend. and if you love you boyfriend, then just ignore your friends boy friend.
2007-01-14 15:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Dreaux~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do nothing because you love your boyfriend.
2007-01-14 15:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
decide who you really want to be with first. 100%. then go with them. dont stay with someone for the sake of them and not you.
2007-01-14 15:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Dara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋