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Sorry I re-asked, but i really gotta know

I have very low self esteem at times, and I was feeling sad about me being a boring person to talk to. I guess that from talking to her I sensed she was bored talking to me (we've talked almost every day since christmas, we haven't been able to go out since like the 28th cuz of work, and she has a child to care for). How do I know if she's lost interest in me? I texted her (10 pm when she got off work) to call me sometime and she hasn't (it's 930 am). Do I call and ask? I don't want to sound wierd if my judgement is off.

2007-01-14 07:03:58 · 3 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and she's 19

2007-01-14 07:04:19 · update #1

3 answers

I know it is hard, but sometimes you've just got to go out on a limb for something you really want. Trust me, if she didn't want to talk to you, she wouldn't talk to you, women have a way of avoiding things they don't enjoy. So, obviously she enjoys your company, and you enjoy hers. I suggest you just call her up and ask her out on a date. Worst case senario she dodges it and says she is busy or something, and you know for certain she doesn't want to be more than friends. Try to be confident, nothing a girl likes more than a man with some self esteem.

2007-01-14 07:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dangermouse 2 · 1 0

Alright, I am only 16 but I have a child of my own and I know that caring for a child and doing work all at the same time is not th most fun in the world. It is like a constant job day in and day out. I have to worry about these types of things all the time too. I am going to tell you not to worry too much about yourself, and just give her some space. Talking to soomeone everyday on the phone or in person while having a child to care for is definatley stressful. She probably isn't bored by you, she is just stressed and tired from having a baby to care for everyday by herself. Maybe offer to babysit when you aren't working and when she really needs it. Maybe this will help bring the two of you closer, try to get more involved with her family instead of just her. She might think she needs a man to help care for her and her baby. My girl tells me stuff like this all the time. She is always on my case about being there for her and Natalee, my daughter. So don't get yourself down, just wait for her to get to you. If she isn't "bored" by you, then she will call and you two can talk about stuff to get closer. And maybe spill your feelings to her if the moment comes to feel.

2007-01-14 15:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by Late*Nights*R*Me 1 · 0 0

This is weddings. You should be in Singles& Dating

2007-01-14 15:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by Domino's Mom 5 · 0 1

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