Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

I was washing some clothes last night and found a heart charm necklace with my name written inside. I asked my girlfriend if it was hers but before I could tell her it had my name inside she said its my roommates. My mind when blank at this point and I didnt know what to think. In fact I still dont know what to do. My roommate and girlfriend get along very well and I know something like this would make things very uneasy. So I didnt tell my girlfriend. Should I just put it back in her room without a word and hope my girlfriend doesnt said anything about me finding it?

2007-01-10 04:03:50 · 17 answers · asked by Dantheman 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2yr we live together…. And I have a big problem we have sex maybe once a week…. I have huge sexual appetite and tried May way of him been more open like we where before. I talk to him about it, I tried been sexier, I play little games with him, I play hard to get, I even fight with him about it.

I don’t know because of it I get the urge to go get it some where else! I wont do it though but I still want to know if there is a way I could change things with him what do I do I tried almost everything I could think of…. It has been a while since I have had sex!!

2007-01-10 04:03:07 · 37 answers · asked by Just ME 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex husband lives 2000 miles away, and my daughters only are with him every other xmas and during the summers, and he started dating this new woman about 2 years ago, and now they are living together, and about to get married. When I talked to my 8 year old daughter during xmas break while she was up there with him, she told me she is going to start calling her mommy, and teresa ( his girlfriend )said it is okay with her if it;s okay with me!! I was so upset........not at my daughter, I talked to my ex husband and told him how bothered I was that they were kind of encouraging it. He told me later that week, that he talked to my girls and they all decided to call her mommy after they were married, which will be this summer. This is a woman that really my girls hardly know, and only see a couple of times a year, and I just dont feel that it is right, but I don't know what is the right thing to do without hurting my daughters!! Please I would love to hear some opinions on this! Thanks

2007-01-10 04:02:36 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been having a no strings sex only kinda relationship with somebody now for 6 months things are great at moment, when we are together its all great sex, company. This is first person i've been with since splitting from ex 18 months ago, i'm more than happy with how things are but, friends are constantly knocking us, they dont believe i can be happy with this, or it can continue to make me happy in future. No we are not bf gf but neither of us sleep with other people, this suits us and makes us happy but, can/will it be able to last like this???

2007-01-10 04:02:12 · 11 answers · asked by mommyfairy 1 in Singles & Dating

help! wat if they dnt like u back? does that matter?

2007-01-10 04:02:05 · 21 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Singles & Dating

If that man sits down at all, he goes to sleep no matter how much sleep he gets the night before. The doctor says he's fine. I am nothing but a slave to this guy and I don't know how much more I can take of it. I wait on him constantly b/c if I don't he's griping.

2007-01-10 04:01:59 · 7 answers · asked by JACQUELINE T 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 04:01:35 · 15 answers · asked by CaramelACandy 1 in Singles & Dating

Well me and my good friend (Nikki) got this part time job as hostesses at this restaurant in our area. Well because I guess we got the job at the same time, always hang out together, etc, the on manager (we had three; the other two were professional) would start asking if we're lesbians. We'd say "Oh no, I actually have a boyfriend---she's single." And he still cotinued to actually call us lesbians and gay during lik every future shift. He'd even talk about this with a few other employees right in front of us and sometimes behind our back...one time the manager told Nikke: "You are never gonna get a b/f if you always hang out with her" etc he always said to everyone "oh I think this girl is in love with Summer." We told him it made us uncomfortable and the next dat he continued. So we both quit---at diff times---and I called the same restaurant just a diff location. She said to call back and tell the GM Wednesday morning. Well here it is...should I do it? When I told my head managaer..

2007-01-10 04:01:05 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been having a no strings sex only kinda relationship with somebody now for 6 months things are great at moment, when we are together its all great sex, company. This is first person i've been with since splitting from ex 18 months ago, i'm more than happy with how things are but, friends are constantly knocking us, they dont believe i can be happy with this, or it can continue to make me happy in future. No we are not bf gf but neither of us sleep with other people, this suits us and makes us happy but, can/will it be able to last like this???

2007-01-10 04:00:35 · 11 answers · asked by mommyfairy 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend keeps calling me a s1ut. && I dont know why. He won't answer me at all. He got mad over me talking to another guy, but me && him don't go out. What's his deal?

2007-01-10 04:00:10 · 2 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Friends

When we 1st met she was 135lbs now she's 175lbs.She went up 2 200lbs with our 1st child (I believed her bcause it was her 1st and she said she thought she had 2 keep eating 2 feed the baby).She never really did nething 2 lose the weight after the baby was here and really didnt care. With our 2nd child, she went up to 195lbs. After we talked about her weight, she decided 2 go to the gym. She went for 2 mnths and quit after she lost 7lbs. I was 140lbs and firm when we met and worked out daily. 6 yrs later I'm still 140lbs. She always makes excuses not 2 go to the gym. It's not bcause of the kids bcause I never have an excuse not to watch my kids if she has 2 do sumthing important. The problem here is she don't watch wat she eats, gets mad when I remind her and always wants 2 eat everything other then wat she should b eating 2 lose weight.The biggest problem is I'm not attracted 2 her sexually ne more.I love her alot. She's not sexually motivated and we have sex once a month.

2007-01-10 03:59:55 · 47 answers · asked by GLENN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my m8 sez shes gonna commit suicide at 9 tonight how can i make her stop n she will because shes tryed before shes going to because shes had a rough brake up with her boy friend n she blames her self n says the reason for living has gone now so she might as well kill herself n no1 cares someone please help cuz i dnt no what ill do without her :(

2007-01-10 03:59:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hmmmm?

2007-01-10 03:59:37 · 10 answers · asked by halbeast 2 in Singles & Dating

And his reasons are exagerated or a lie? He justs wants a quick divorce. He is on a formal police caution for assulting me too. Can he still claim money from me with a history of violence behind him with me?

2007-01-10 03:59:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my children are 6 and 9, both boys, and t they are driving me crazy.....they fight with each other all the time they are starting to back mouth me and my husband and I have had it with them even my 2 yr old "boy" has picked up on this does any1 have any suggestions on what to do....and yes they do get plenty of love and disapline.

2007-01-10 03:59:30 · 6 answers · asked by LITTLE_RAT 2 in Family

My friend keeps calling me a s1ut. && I dont know why. He won't answer me at all. He got mad over me talking to another guy, but me && him don't go out. What's his deal?

2007-01-10 03:59:29 · 26 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband works in the same industry as my dad in the next town over. Because of the way hiring goes, most of the people who work with my husband have worked with my dad before, and they know that he's being considered for a job opening four hours away.

The rumor mill is also alive and well in this profession, so my husband heard through the grapevine that Daddy would consider taking the job, and insinuated that he's having marital problems and that would influence his decision.

In the past three years, one of my stepsisters have died from a drug overdose, and another is constantly getting into trouble with drugs, not holding down a job, and she's lived with my dad and stepmom off and on (she's in her twenties), so they have had a strain on their marriage.

Is it wrong for me to ask questions to try to find out if this is true? Yes, I am burning with a need to gossip, but if it's going around in my dad's work and beyond and it weren't true, wouldn't he want it stopped?

2007-01-10 03:59:07 · 10 answers · asked by CrazyChick 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I'm a real life geek at my school. I'm the quite intelligent one who just does her work and says nothing much really. I have had 4 boyfriends in my life so far and i'm in year 11. That's less than my lil sis whos 12. This dude asked me out a week ago and today i said no to him. However theres another dude who i am interested in. but we used to date so i don' think he would ask me out to the ball this year, whcih is a shame. But I really don't know what to do! Any ideas?

2007-01-10 03:58:58 · 3 answers · asked by Cute little penguin 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 03:58:36 · 7 answers · asked by Karina 1 in Weddings

my b/f is always sniffing my panties, what the hell is wrong with this ****** picture

2007-01-10 03:58:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So,I have a lovely gamer for a husband. A true electronic nut...

the only problem being,I'm on a severe budget. and I have no idea what to get him (for once)

We don't buy dvds or cds,he already has a ps2,xbox,gamecube,psp and a ds.

However,he hasn't had a gameboy color in ages. They're somewhat cheap. He also doesn't have an NES-and I know he'd enjoy that as well. His SNES broke,too. ...but I'm almost tempted to -not- want to get him something that obvious.

He gets thrown off to somewhere in the mideast in May and this will be our only Valentine's day together since we got married in 2005,until 2009. I'd really like it to be something wonderful... but I'm rather out of ideas.

If anyone else has any other input (relating to gifts or not) I'd completely appreciate it. =)

2007-01-10 03:58:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 03:57:41 · 8 answers · asked by novembr 5 in Singles & Dating

Ladies how do you feel when it comes to circumcision? Cut or uncut?

Reasons?

2007-01-10 03:57:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

has anyone got any ideas on a healthy sex life

No sarky comments about friut and veg

2007-01-10 03:56:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 03:56:49 · 11 answers · asked by lysa 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's (have been in a relationship for 3 years) uncle is getting married next month so we will both be attending their wedding..I know his family very well..what would be the appropiate thing to wear to the wedding? I don't want to be overdressed or underdressed...just want advice with etiquette. Thank you!

2007-01-10 03:56:11 · 5 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2 in Weddings

2007-01-10 03:55:43 · 19 answers · asked by Amie H 1 in Singles & Dating

Last week i told a guy friend of mine at work that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him since he didn't respond back to me after I texted him Happy New Year's and I ended up sending him another text calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then the next day , I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals. He's ignoring me, no hello, excuse me, thank you, nada and i'm thinking he's a jerk.

2007-01-10 03:55:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it that my b/f walks around the house all day in his underwear or just plain nude with nothing on and never closes the bathroom door when he he goes in

2007-01-10 03:55:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK i was dating a girl, and she was quite ignorant.
She had never been to college, or hold any degree or certification.
Yet, she acted mentally as if she was a Harvard Graduate.

She would demand respect as such, and I couldn't help but think that she needed to earn her place in this world before demanding respect.

So this first question is for the ladies...If you have never finished college, and may not be in the best shape of your life...
then why do you expect your man to be educated, accomplished, and in good shape?

Second question, why do you demand respect as if you were an accomplished individual when you may be ignorant.
Beauty is only skin deep.

2007-01-10 03:55:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating