I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2yr we live together…. And I have a big problem we have sex maybe once a week…. I have huge sexual appetite and tried May way of him been more open like we where before. I talk to him about it, I tried been sexier, I play little games with him, I play hard to get, I even fight with him about it.
I don’t know because of it I get the urge to go get it some where else! I wont do it though but I still want to know if there is a way I could change things with him what do I do I tried almost everything I could think of…. It has been a while since I have had sex!!
2007-01-10 04:03:07 · 37 answers · asked by Just ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think at in every relationship this happens. Ive been with my man(we dont live together) for four years, and this happens sometimes. He tells me when he is stressed, sick, mad about work he is not in the mood. You may need to talk to him to find out what his problem is. DO not cheat on him, try to work it out. If it doesan't change well you need to move on.
2007-01-10 04:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help!!!! No but really if you love him and you talked to him about it , you may have to deal with it because he does'nt need sex like you do . So i think you need to get some toys and have fun with yourself. If not then you need to get out of the relationship it's only going to get worst and your gone to cheat on him in the long run. Guys sometime have problems with the way that they perform sex. And he may be shamed so let him know that he is great and that he pleases you . Ask him how you are in bed it could be that you are not doing something that he wants. Or maybe he has someone else and he could be cheating. Don't come on strong, but really sit down and tell him about how you feel ask question . Get him involved and see want happens. GOOD LUCK...
2007-01-10 04:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual harmony is a very important thing in a relationship and long term this difference in appetites could drive you both nuts. Talk to him and make it very clear that this is an area where you are very different and you want to make it work. Initiate sex when you can get a toy if you have to or just enjoy pleasuring yourself :) If you love him don't cheat although long term if will get tough if he ignores your needs.
2007-01-10 04:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could have written this myself! I don't know how old you are but women reach their sexual prime in their 30s. You are getting it more then me, try 1x mth! Sometimes sexual impulses take over and you have thoughts of looking elsewhere to satisfy your desires but it's totally not worth it. In the end, good ole fashion communication is the answer. Once a week isn't the end of the world but if you truly can't live with less you need to be more clear and firm with him of what your needs are.
2007-01-10 04:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by vonhartleben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-10 04:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by BUM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you think that maybe he cheating on you, have you ever just came out and asked him if you didnt you should. you also need to ask him if he is still attracted to you because that could be a problem there could be a # of reasons such as ... weight, stress, age,or like i mentioned before cheating or he could want out of the relationship and dont know how to tell you , you guys need to sit down and have a serious talk and you need to let him know that sex is a BIG part of the relationship
2007-01-10 04:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by shorty123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obsessed with sex and preoccupied with it. This means you have an imbalance or possible disorder. First of all, sex is designed to be an expression of love in marriage and for reproduction. When you cheapen sex, cheapen yourself, and cheapen the relationships meaning this is the exact result.
End the relationship. Confess your sins to God. Start following Gods plan for your life. Wait for marriage to "make love" and get some counseling and see why you are using sex to complete yourself. You may have childhood unresolved issues. Daddy issues? Sexual abuse? Relationship issues? Could be a host of reasons but it is definitely abnormal health.
2007-01-10 04:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by Shayna 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are coming on to strong maybe and that turns him off. Or maybe, he is seeing someone else. Try backing off of the sex for awhile and see what happens. Go get you some sex toys to occupy your time ..........
2007-01-10 04:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a week is more normal than 3 times a day.
2007-01-10 04:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Catch him off guard. Suprise him. Dress sexy when he gets home from work. You could also do what I do, while he is asleep get him excited, then he will wake up horny :) heh heh and never realize its because you were touching him :)
another option is buy some toys. Explain to him that your sex drive is high and you;d like him to use them with you.
2007-01-10 04:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋