Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

ive been dating dis guy for 8mnths now.recently while watching a movie sum1 called n he was explainin 2 dat person whr he is n he can show tickets 2 prove he's watchin a movie. wen i aked who he was tellin al dis 2 he said a guy fren of his. obviously i was suspicious.i saw d # n memorised it.wen i came bak home i checked whos #it was n it wasnt a guy's # it was a girls! i spoke 2her,she told me she was seein him 4 one n half yrs n broke up a yr ago but stil in touch.she dint no bout me. den my guy called her n was tellin her dat he din tel her coz shel get hurt,dat he was serious bout me at 1st but nt later coz he 'cot me tokin2a guy',although v meet everyday he told her only 2-3times a week for few hrs,dat v hav so many fyts so he cant cal me his gf.al grls r same4him,so wot if he was roamin around wid me. den he cals me n says dnt blv her,m attached2 u,dnt want2 loose u,im rong so u can punish me.he says "u heard everythin din u hear i was serious bout u?" wots goin on???

2007-01-10 03:55:07 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you think that men and women can learn to get along much better besides the way we each view things? Give a details on how you feel this could be solved.

2007-01-10 03:54:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He isvery jelouse,so i don't know if i should lie to him or tel him the truth,'cause he'll ask me where i was...what should i do??I don't want to hurt him...I don't feel anything to my ex,but he won't understand that.HELP

2007-01-10 03:54:12 · 14 answers · asked by Keti 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother told me.... To never hit girls.... Always be poilte and never pull a horrid face in case the wind changed and it stayed that way.... And that there is someone made for each and everyone of us.....

My dad told me..... To never hit first.... To always be honest and Speak my mind....To help defend those that are weaker than me ..... and a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.....

2007-01-10 03:54:05 · 12 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

what if he totally hates me and i thought i still had feelings for him they were jsut brief and me and kykle got together right after me and my ex seperated and it jsut racks my brian because i am only 17 and we almost had a baby and this is too much pressure along with trying to get into college which i've almost done!!!

2007-01-10 03:53:57 · 9 answers · asked by Love hurts??? what to do?! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 03:53:05 · 2 answers · asked by kapsi 1 in Friends

hi there

i'm feeling quite depressed at the moment as i dont want to carry on with my girlfriend who i have only been dating for two months. normally i would just finish the relationship, but i like her best friend. i've liked her ever since we started going out, and the feelings have become stronger everytime im around her. what should i do?

any serious advice would be very appreciated. thank you very much. bye x

2007-01-10 03:52:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok I have this ex that I have been trying to get back with.. He said he needed his time to think..ect.. long story short.. our kids bowl together and never really comes up to watch when he has his kids.. He usually picks them up after bowling is over. Well this last time he came up there and he walked up to the table and and said whats up... and sat down next to me.. We played Keno together and just had normal conversations.. it was great..

my question is this: (and this is what I think)--- If he absoultley did not want any part of you and he knew I was there.. would he even attemp to sit there next to you if there are other seats and you could just stand back and watch?? Would he even talk to you knowing that you want him back and want to work things out??

Is that his way of showing he still cares or whatever, because I know guys have some problems communicating sometimes...
(no offense)

TY!!

2007-01-10 03:52:20 · 3 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 03:51:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 03:50:07 · 15 answers · asked by baybayli 1 in Singles & Dating

Its my birthday tomorow, I will be 34 and proud of it.... I feel I've got better with age, what was your favorite age and why?

2007-01-10 03:49:52 · 17 answers · asked by Berrylicious 2 in Friends

i get so jealous when im in gym class when i see this guy hanging around another girl that is not me. i get so jealous i get so mad that ii dont even want to talk to him. i also get so mad because ill be in gym class and hell see me and not even say a word to me. but the day b4 that he was all talking to me. now today it seems like he hates me. alls because he isnt talking to me and another grl. why do i get this way. could you tell me some ways where i dont get so jealous?

2007-01-10 03:49:41 · 2 answers · asked by britt- britt 1 in Friends

aNYONE KNOWINGH ABOUT DEBT, DIVORCE DISADLED CHILDRENS RIGHTS PLEASE CONTACT. mY EX PARTNER IS TRYING TO TAKE MY HOME FROME ME I HAVE A DISABLED DAUGHTER WHO REQUIRES A ROOF OVER HER HEAD I AM NOT GOING TO GIVE UP. I HAVE PAID EVERYTHING HE HAD NOTHING WHEN HE MET MEAND RAN AWAY WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. I GAVE A GOOD START. iS MY DAUGHTER ENTITLED TO ANYTHING I HAVE WORKED FOR, wHAT DO I DO? ANY GOOD IDEAS NO IDIOTS PLEASE SOMETIMES LIFE IS SERIOUS AND INVOLVES MORE VUNURABLE PEOPLE THAN OURSELVES. PLEASE GIVE YOUR SUGGESTIONS?

2007-01-10 03:49:40 · 11 answers · asked by linda s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 03:49:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am now married and I was wondering how my rings are supposed to go on my hand. Is it wedding band and then engagement ring or engagement ring and then wedding band. I thought the engagement ring goes first then the wedding band because thats the order everything happened in but my mom who is a wedding photographer and sees this stuff all the time says the opposite and so did our officiant. Anyone know for sure?

2007-01-10 03:48:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

This question is open but I'd like to hear from mature guys who date fairly regularly.

I met a nice guy online and we're set to go on our first date.

Convention puts all the onerous on guys to do everything, pay, bring flowers or some other gift, open doors, etc. etc. While I'm old-fashioned, I'd also like to show to a guy that I appreciate his efforts and would like to bring my date a nice little gift, especially since I know he'll probably pick up the tab (even if I offer).

What would be a nice, small gift just to break the ice and develop a nice rapport for the evening (and possibly for the relationship on the whole)? Thanks.

2007-01-10 03:48:10 · 20 answers · asked by bklyngal28 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is trying to control me and blaming me that I am sleeping around with my friends when I hang out with them. He constantly wants to make me fit in his schedule and he belittles the activities that I do. He was so loving and caring in the beginning but two months after he became violent and started throwing objects around me. I try to calm him down speaking with him but he seems that he doesn't care and he doesn't trust me. What can I do? I am really feeling depressed, I do whatever he says but even when I do what he says he is not satisfied and sometime he is not satisfied with the choices that he makes and he blames me. I am totally confused but some other times we have good times. Could you give me some advice? I offered him to go to a couple therapist, but he thinks I am the one who needs to see a therapist. Sex is good and we have really happy times but I feel so down more than half the time. He wants me to give up on my friends, if I love him.

2007-01-10 03:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by joe b 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 26 and have been with my bloke for 2 and half years and i cant even think about marraige, but so many people my age and youger are all getting spliced , its only a bit of paper does anyone else feel the same

2007-01-10 03:47:41 · 15 answers · asked by hayley b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married to a military man, who just returned from Tiland. And he is suddenly obsessed with wanting me to deficate on chest, while giving him oral. That is soooo gross, he makes me ill. What could've possibly happened in Tiland ?

2007-01-10 03:47:21 · 12 answers · asked by Headevas 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My coworker says that it is proof that men are smarter than women because even in the dead of winter, women wear skimpy evening clothes and men wear tuxedos.
I had to laugh but it gives one pause.

2007-01-10 03:46:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I met this girl online. She seems pretty cool. Only thing is...i read her live jounal, and it turns out she smokes. Right away I would move on, the thing is she only smokes once in awhile...during exams and such. I think smoking is vile, and my mom died from lung cancer, so should I even keep talking to her/and eventually meet her/date her??? she seems nice other wise.

2007-01-10 03:45:06 · 39 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Singles & Dating

why dont you answer these questions with some humor? get the gerbil out of your backside and lighten up...and for everyone who is here for a good time....thank you....p.s. how many pieces of pizza did you eat on new years?

2007-01-10 03:43:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 03:43:00 · 8 answers · asked by CrAzY>In>LoVe<3 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is getting married in April. I'm not in the bridal party because her mother is the one planning the wedding (my friend has pretty much no input whatsoever so the bridesmaids and groomsmen are up to mom). When someone asked my friend who was going to plan the shower and the batchelorette party she pointed to me and said "my bestest friend in the world!". I'm honored that she wants me to be the one to plan both events but this is the Maid of Honor's job. What should I do?

2007-01-10 03:42:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i went to trinidad for 3mths,and when i came back i saw a tex msg on his phone saying.YES!BUT NEXT TIME SLOW DOWN,MORE PASSION LESS BANGING.THATS WHY U WERE SO TIRED.after i read it i asked him about it,he said that he and his friends was talking about how there partners like having intercourse.what do u think?

2007-01-10 03:41:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am very shy and find difficult in communicating people

2007-01-10 03:41:46 · 7 answers · asked by gudia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 03:41:43 · 12 answers · asked by sharan 2 in Singles & Dating

I am very close to my one sister and I think she thinks I'm going to ask her. Naturally, because I know it would kill her if I didn't, I am leaning towards asking her. However, she has a 4 year old and he hasn't been baptised yet so I don't feel she would take it seriously.
My husband and I don't attend chruch on a regular basis, but I still want my daughter to understand and beleive in god and heaven.

Anyway, I also think my sister in law wants us to ask her.

How do I chose between families without hurting anyones feelings?

2007-01-10 03:41:17 · 20 answers · asked by Newmomofone 3 in Family

This morning I meant to ask this chick coworker that when we are going to get paid? However, due to my outreagous naughty thoughts which are playing in my mind all the time, I asked her When are we going to get laid? I thought she was career oriented chick and she will slap me, but to my surprise she laughed and walked off. My rules says that do not mix up work and pleasure. But I am still puzzled, should I take a chance to tap that chick?

2007-01-10 03:41:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So just because I am attracted to mean bully meanies.... and I tell him GO AWAY I WANT TO BREAK UP..... and then i just can't say no to those kisses and hugs... etc.... aside from getting a new b/f who is nice and who might get killed by my old b/f, or getting a restraining order against my current bully b/f, WHAT CAN I DO?
This has been going on for two years now. I have told him repeatedly taht I will never live with or marry him.. I refuse to take his house key... come ON, HELP ME OUT PEOPLE

2007-01-10 03:40:13 · 4 answers · asked by andie 1 in Singles & Dating