why do i get so jealous when i see him with some one else?

Question

i get so jealous when im in gym class when i see this guy hanging around another girl that is not me. i get so jealous i get so mad that ii dont even want to talk to him. i also get so mad because ill be in gym class and hell see me and not even say a word to me. but the day b4 that he was all talking to me. now today it seems like he hates me. alls because he isnt talking to me and another grl. why do i get this way. could you tell me some ways where i dont get so jealous?

Answer 1

I wouldn't necessarily say you're jealous you just dislike when he doesn't give you the attention that you want. This is a case of a crush. You want this guy to be into when it is apparent that he may be or may not be. Actions speak what words don't always say. If he acts interested then you should be able to tell. If he acts some-timey then leave him alone. He isn't any good for you. He wants to act like he is important only when he sees it affects you. That isn't cool. Just let him break a sweat wondering why the next time you didn't even look his way or say hello. Don't break you neck for a guy who doesn't even attempt to do the same for you. You shouldn't have to act out of character for someone to notice that is where being yourself comes into play. If you stick to being who you are why bother trying to be someone esle by getting upset or jealous.

Try to focus on doing other things that interest you other than this guy. Doing this keep you from worrying about what he is doing rather you'll worried more about what is important and meaningful to you. It'll come a day when you'll stop thinking about him, it just takes time.

Good luck!

Answer 2

maybe because you like him. or maybe you like the attention he gives you and cant stand it when he gives it to other girls. he sounds like a big flirt. i've met guys like him. he flirts with one today, then tomorrow he sees a cuter girl and flirts with her. or maybe he stopped giving you attention because you treat him coldly when you get mad at him. remember he doesnt know why your behaving like that, he probably thinks that you just can't stand him. honestly i dont know what to tell you. maybe you should try being nice to him the next time you see him, saying hi and smiling. try to not to show you jealousy feelings so much. play your cards right and you might even find out i he likes you and if you like him.