ive been dating dis guy for 8mnths now.recently while watching a movie sum1 called n he was explainin 2 dat person whr he is n he can show tickets 2 prove he's watchin a movie. wen i aked who he was tellin al dis 2 he said a guy fren of his. obviously i was suspicious.i saw d # n memorised it.wen i came bak home i checked whos #it was n it wasnt a guy's # it was a girls! i spoke 2her,she told me she was seein him 4 one n half yrs n broke up a yr ago but stil in touch.she dint no bout me. den my guy called her n was tellin her dat he din tel her coz shel get hurt,dat he was serious bout me at 1st but nt later coz he 'cot me tokin2a guy',although v meet everyday he told her only 2-3times a week for few hrs,dat v hav so many fyts so he cant cal me his gf.al grls r same4him,so wot if he was roamin around wid me. den he cals me n says dnt blv her,m attached2 u,dnt want2 loose u,im rong so u can punish me.he says "u heard everythin din u hear i was serious bout u?" wots goin on???
2007-01-10 03:55:07 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my God!! Chat speak makes me wanna throw my laptop out the window.
I barely could read that problem of yours. The only thing you can do is to ask him promptly 'Are we serios? Do you consider me your girlfriend?' Jeez... 8 months without knowing whether you are his girlfrined or just a waste of time? Girl... You didn't mention that you love him, meaning that you are just emotionally attached to him. Go find yourself a good guy who will respect you and will treat you so good, that you will never want to look into his phone to check on him.
This guy is obviously still connected to his ex, and most probably will get back together. I've seen people separate and after 10 months reconnecting, then sepparating again for a year and finally getting together again in a more serious relationship, and both admit that they considered the separation a time off when both had changed and then consider the reunion e better period. This happens all the time.
2007-01-10 04:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think, he's not roaming around with u, i know u'll find me little rude, but that's what the reality is, seeing at ur problem, i can make out that ur guy is creating options for himself, u'll find me rude but it's true, he's still not sure about which girl he wants, either u or her. so he's keeping both of u and if he gels up with u, then he's leave the other girl, and if not u then her, so, stop being a tennis ball and just get it clear he really loves u or not. tell him that u know about the game he's playing and get it clear whom he loves, that's it,all the best, and keep me updated, i'll try my best to help u out. by the way i m also in a problem, u can answer my question also, it's in my profile.
2007-01-10 04:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the comparable undertaking, i actually enjoyed this female, we had staring contests, we laughed at the same time, we gave one yet another hugs, whether it became out she in simple terms needed to be pals. If he's tht variety of guy who's like that wirth different ladies, then I guess he doesn''t such as you as a female buddy, he probable is desirous to be your buddy.
2016-10-30 13:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a date with your boy friend , and ask the other girl to drop by . you will find out the truth. . If it was me, i would never even talk to him again.
2007-01-10 07:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to leave her and try to liv a peace ful place
2007-01-13 07:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by dj _ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player. Forget him!
2007-01-10 05:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by Christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋