Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

Why couldn't he just get a job? I mean why have your wife working double shifts like that. His job was part-time if I'm not mistaken. I have worked a double shift and it's alot and I couldn't even imagine doing it with a child.

BTW
I thought it was a good movie and Will Smith did an excellent job acting.

2007-01-10 04:28:29 · 11 answers · asked by ~Leading Lady~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I do seek out very pale, petite white women. It is my preferance. But with my newest love, I am very confused by her behavior in bed. When she climaxes she starts slapping my back and screaming Coonta Kentay repeatedly. I am worried because I really enjoyed it. Am I lacking something?

2007-01-10 04:28:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 04:27:51 · 9 answers · asked by krish 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 04:27:33 · 22 answers · asked by Lady in Red 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Last week I found out that my Boyfriend was exchanging sexually explicit emails with another woman online. He said that they never met in person, we had a huge blow-up over this issue, resolved it (with him swearing never to do it again) and then continued on with a wonderful weekend. Seek and you shall find I always say....well on Monday I found pictures of him hidden away on the computer posing nude on our bed. Even though we have also talked about this and he swore to me that he took the pictures but never sent them to the woman he was exchanging emails with (I am not sure if I should believe that), I am still feeling disgusted with the whole thing. He swore to me that it would never happen again, and that he loves me and can't live without me. Bottom line, I feel betrayed, like our beautiful realationship has been smuged with toxic waste. Will the wound in my heart ever heal?

2007-01-10 04:27:23 · 18 answers · asked by Easter Bunny 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

please dont be gross keep it clean the last attempt was removed by admin

2007-01-10 04:27:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 04:26:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

goodness he hasnt called me since new years and yesterday the 9th was my birthday and he didnt call me, wen i call he don answer and he makes excuses that i always fall for and i get so week that its hard for me to tell him i don wanna be wit him n more!!!! what do i do should i talk to him or keep on lettin him do what he does??? how do i do it??? its real hard for me!!!!!!! let me know what to say and how long i should wait or should i get some money/gifts for x-mas and my b-day that he didnt give me!!!! or just do it now or what???? i don wanna be a gold digger but i don wanna feel bad for him after wut he put me through!!!!

2007-01-10 04:26:08 · 23 answers · asked by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 in Singles & Dating

I am texting back and forth with my boyfriend and we are talking sexy to each other but I have run out of new things to say to him. Any guys have any sugestions?

2007-01-10 04:25:55 · 9 answers · asked by winterstorm23 2 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy met on a cruise. we hung out since day one, but i never really noticed him until the 4th night. the 4th night we hung out the whole entire night just me and him talking about everything. and then he made it a point to make sure we were hanging out the next night. by the end of the 4th night we had layed together, and hooked up as well. he slept over that night, and the next night we hung out again. at one point he was in the casino, and my friend went to the casino and asked him to come hang out with us. sure enough, he came within 10 minutes and we hung out. me and him went to his room to be alone and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening in the moment. it was great, but he didn't talk much. after we had sex we walked to my room, and he was about to come in but his cousin walked past us, and asked if we wanted to go to the casino. so we went to the casino, and then i left to go lay down. he told me he'd come back, and he did to sleepover. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him i was with another guy (which i wasn't). he supposedly got upset and didn't hang out with me the next two nights. i told him that i wasn't with another guy and everything got cleared up, and we hung out again. the whole entire night, me, him, and my best friend hung out. then my friend left with some guy, and me and this guy ended up hooking up again, and everything led to sex again happening in the moment. this time he talked a lot more, and he told me he wanted to do it with me for a long time. he constantly asked me if i was alright, and we acted like a couple, having a cute relationship. the next night we hung out the whole night and kissed goodbye. after the cruise he messaged me right away on myspace, and we kept messaging eachother back and forth until about october. i had visited him and he acted the same exact way he did on the cruise and he kissed me goodbye on the lips and everything. when i stepped outside for a minute, some guy even asked this guy where his girlfriend went. haha. at one point i thought this guy had been avoiding me because the computer does crazy things, so i messaged him and i was like..if you don't want anything to do with me..please don't write back..but he did write back explaining how of course we're still friends and he doesn't have a girlfriend. i happen to be going to college where he lives in august which was planned before i even met him. but now it's been 5 months after the cruise, and he just got a girlfriend. i have no intentions of breaking them up at all. it's only normal to move on, we live far away and can't be together.

do you think he really liked me a lot? or do you think he was using me?
and if you think he was using me..can you please tell me why

2007-01-10 04:25:37 · 10 answers · asked by lindsay m 1 in Singles & Dating

I had to go to mechanic for regular maintance of my p i m p mobile. One thing led to another and mechanic told me that his shop has not been doing well lately. I told him to put some hot slutty chicks at counter who can attract some customers. He was religious old dude, he told me that I am pig, I don't have respect for chicks and I got kicked out. What did I do wrong?

2007-01-10 04:25:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for awhile and we are SOOO compatible and I honestly want to try to stick around to be the wifey but i'm not sure what i need to make sure it doesnt go bad. I have been holding out but still giving a little peak or tease every now and then but i'd rather be the wifey material. His family loves me as mine does him he is already husband material for me & my family... So Guys... what is it that would make a girl your wifey to be material and not just a ho that you date....

2007-01-10 04:24:24 · 19 answers · asked by Kathryn N 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 04:24:03 · 3 answers · asked by BlAzE-1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 04:23:14 · 5 answers · asked by skaterchic947 1 in Friends

He started in chat rooms, then swapped email address with girl in scotland, i found out in aug, she didnt know he was married. He begged for forgiveness , we started again, unfortunatley she contacted him again in sept and i found out agiain New years day.
Its the lies and deceit that hurt the most. I have tried to ask questions as he says he loves me, but did it for escapism as we are up to our eyes in debt and hardly see each other due to clearing debts. I have asked questions he just gets nasty, he wont talk to me, and last night he told me he was Peed off with me crying all of the time, but the reason i am crying is because he wont talk about it and i am frustrated and hurt. We also have two 5 year olds caught up in this

2007-01-10 04:21:56 · 48 answers · asked by Diane P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 04:21:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well we are probobly gona be in the car u know after the date shes probobly gona have fun etc(il try to make it the most fun).. than comes the time where i drop her of home and im sayin bye or whtevr give her a hug ...........so this time i give her a kiss i guss but how do i go by makin the first move .......????


I WONA KISS!!


and i need PROFESSIONAL ADVICE PLEASE :)

2007-01-10 04:20:53 · 6 answers · asked by LeonZe 2 in Singles & Dating

He's tells me we 've never been good and it's all excuses.He's gone in everyway but has not left the house and says next mo,he will be moving out.I don't know what to do ,say or help my situation.I can't imagine my life without him,I love him more than anything.....I've already tried to face reality,I need help in my behaviour towards my relationship with him as a wife.He also asked for the divorce.

2007-01-10 04:20:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 04:20:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a 30 year old woman that has always enjoyed sex. My husband had an affair on me and now I have NO desire to have sex. My self esteem is hurt by his affair of course, but the fact the woman was so overweight and ugly (I modeled for 10 years and am very pretty) it hurts even worse. Every single time we have had sex since I have found out, I think about what he did the entire time, now I just don't want to do it at all.

2007-01-10 04:19:48 · 9 answers · asked by Pretty Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if you knew a girl that liked you that you were friends with and you found out that she had genital herpes and hpv would you persue a relationship with her or just keep it on a friendship level?

2007-01-10 04:19:25 · 11 answers · asked by demongurl420_2007 1 in Singles & Dating

I have seen ladies I would have liked to approch when out at a place that this before but just never know if it is appropriate or not. What do you think?

2007-01-10 04:19:17 · 26 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Singles & Dating

With tears hitting the keyboard, and my brain hurting from anger and self-pity, I am at the point of total loss. My 15 yr. old moved 2 states back from her dads 35 hours ago. agreed to follow simple house rules, and just be nice to her family, and in return respect would be returned. Where peace once lived it has moved on. Rules, respect, and common sense have all been broken by her since returning. No she was not abused, nor deprived, but yes I admit I have given too much to her growing up, but did so seeing all the hard work and pride she had in herself. She has been given the attention, and nurtering. Why can she not see that I love her. I would give her my last breath of air that come from my lungs if it would mean her being happy, and living right. Why can she not talk in a low voice as she does to her friends. Our rules her are nothing out of ordinary. Why does she hate her life and feel we are all out to get her. Give me a word, something to heal us both. My heart is crushed.

2007-01-10 04:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by FANNY 2 in Family

Once upon a time I was a major "player". I cheated on ever girlfriend I had. As I get older I realize I dont want that anymore. I am looking for more. Do you believe people can change?? I think I have. I think it comes with age and maturity.

2007-01-10 04:19:05 · 17 answers · asked by Stuey 6 in Singles & Dating

what if you never fall in love?

2007-01-10 04:18:43 · 1 answers · asked by Leslie S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There home smells like urine terrible, and i feel uncomfortable even sittng down on any of the chairs. they will not admit they have a problem ( especially grandma), but if she knew how bad it really smelled she would be very embarased. any advice?

2007-01-10 04:18:37 · 4 answers · asked by phil b 1 in Family

Well basically, ive been... i hesitate to use the term, but i really love my friend, and ive felt this way for about a year now. We are in the same class at college, meet up or hang out at his house once or twice a week. I realised I was crushing on him a while ago but thought it would pass, but it didnt. I really care about him and when i dont see him i feel empty. I honestly just want everything to be good for him. The thing is, he is an exchange student and has a girfriend back home. When we finish at college this year he will move back home and I will go to uni. But for now, i think about him constantly, i cant sleep, i cant relax. i have tried avoiding him but it makes it worse cause i miss him as we really get on well, he doesnt understand and says he misses me too. I can never make a move on him. How can i forget him? I dont want to feel this way any more, its like having permanent stomachache.

2007-01-10 04:18:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently broke off an engagement. I originally bought a ring worth approx 10K. Is there any way I can sell this somewhere and recoup a decent amount of the money? what are my options. I dont want to keep it obviously.

2007-01-10 04:18:00 · 11 answers · asked by melder28 2 in Weddings

2007-01-10 04:17:49 · 2 answers · asked by delmonticoman 5 in Singles & Dating

a casual affair would you want to be friends. What I am saying is we was suppose to start out as friends with benefits, but it ended up being a casual affair. The guy talks to me through out the week, ask me how I am doing and actually tries to talk to me. So I wanted to know if I am ok with the no strings attached then what makes him want to add the friendship to the casual affair.

Also, since he is now doing this, what can I say or ask to take it to a friendship that won't make it seem like I want realationship or that I am trying to get in his personal business. I don't mind being his friend I just don't know how because it is a casual affair.

2007-01-10 04:17:44 · 5 answers · asked by Sexy Love 1 in Singles & Dating