goodness he hasnt called me since new years and yesterday the 9th was my birthday and he didnt call me, wen i call he don answer and he makes excuses that i always fall for and i get so week that its hard for me to tell him i don wanna be wit him n more!!!! what do i do should i talk to him or keep on lettin him do what he does??? how do i do it??? its real hard for me!!!!!!! let me know what to say and how long i should wait or should i get some money/gifts for x-mas and my b-day that he didnt give me!!!! or just do it now or what???? i don wanna be a gold digger but i don wanna feel bad for him after wut he put me through!!!!
2007-01-10 04:26:08 · 23 answers · asked by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you should. Just call him and tell him you don't think he cares enough for you.
2007-01-10 04:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Bates Water Gardens 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sending you a very clear message. It is over.
Do not expect anything from him, you will not get anything.
He is gutless and will not tell you the truth, because he knows he is a coward.
He is not the guy for you or anybody else.
You can't make someone care for you if they don't.
You don't want a one-sided relationship... that would be very lonely.
I think you have given him enough of your valuable time to come around and be a man and tell you the truth.
Obviously you are upset, and no wonder.
Do not wait for a call, do not waste your breath even talking to him, this immature boy is weak and does not have an respect for you let alone himself....
I think you can do much better.
Do not let him play with you anymore, cause that is what he is doing.
Do not believe a single word he has to say, because he will turn everything around and make it seem like you are at fault.
This is a sad and dejected soul who has a very bad outlook on life.
Don't let him take you down the sewer with him.
Happy Belated birthday........
2007-01-10 12:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the next time you talk to him tell him you think maybe you guys should see other people. now dont be afraid to say this to him cause one of two things will happen and it wont make you look bad at all. when you tell him he with either say ok which will suck but it will only prove that he was trying to get you to break up with him to get him off the hook my ex did that to me several times. the other thing that might happen would be that he will say no and why would you want that and then you would tell him thats its not what you want but thats the impression you get from him because he ignores you for weeks at a time and didnt even call you on your birthday. ask him if you treated him like that how would he feel, he would come to the same conclusions. if he really does want to make it work then tell him your happy cause you want it to work too but a few things are gonna have to change or this relationship will be right back to this point in a few weeks. tell him you want to see him more even if its only one date a week. tell him that you would like to talk at least once a day even if its just for a few seconds to say hi. you deserve to know that you are appreciated and being thought of. tell him if those two things are too hard for him to commit to then you guys will be forced to part ways because he isnt ready to have a real relationship. hope it helps any more advice jusk ask.
2007-01-10 12:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by tasha1b4u2b_beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should just do whatever you feel like. If you really love this guy then I think I would give him a few more chances. If you really dont wanna be with him then you should just tell him and get it over with. Theres is no need in keeping on doing this if you dont love the guy, but if you love him it is worth trying. After a few more weeks if he still doesnt respond to you, then I would just forget him.
2007-01-10 12:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you done need to be with him. no girl deserves a guy who does not call her on her birthday. and he were a real boyfriend he would have been kissing you at 12 on new years. but yes i think you leave a message and you should tell him that you need to talk and its serious. and if he does not call within a day or two back then just call him back and leave a messGe and just tell him that you need to break up with him. make sure to tell him why you want to break up. dont say cause you did not give me a present for my birthday. say you havent called me in over a week. and it was my birthday. but not i done think you should be with a guy who doesnt talk to you.
2007-01-10 12:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....you are one very confused woman. You can't decide if you should leave someone that hasn't talked to you in a couple of weeks.....never sent you gifts for Christmas or your birthday.
But of course the big concern you have is if you drop him now he may have those gifts but just hasn't gotten them to you.
Hmmmmmmm. Lady you have a problem. I hate to tell you this but I think you have been dumped. Please understand guys don't do this if they really care.
If you ever get hold of him tell him goodbye. You are far too sensitive for this.
2007-01-10 12:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should never let anyone lead u on. and it sounds as tho he is doing such.. u are sitting around waiting on this guy while in fact he is living his life hun move on. u r jus wasting ur time with him it seems...go out have fun and find u a good guy who will give u the love care and attention u so deserve.NEVER wait for anyone if they dont show interest..move on life is too short too pause or stop ur own life
2007-01-10 12:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Constance♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop calling him. the gifts might be a gateway into bad treatment. 'Cause you might feel angry, but if he gave you that stuff, you'd soften. He doesn't sound like a good guy. You can do better. Show yourself the respect he has denied you.
If he calls, tell him it's too late.
2007-01-10 12:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is this and I'm trying to let go of an unhealthy relationship as well, (PAIN IS PAIN) it hurts to stay, it hurts to let go, but which pain do think will go away quicker??
Change your number, loose his number and move on. Sounds like he already has.
2007-01-10 12:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a doormat
Hes a piece
get this book
Why guys love B*tches
My bf went out on my birthday and new years. Who wants to or should be alone during these times?
You deserve better
get him to shape up or ship out.
2007-01-10 12:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's wasting your time ditch him and find someone who treats you as you want to be treated. Your the important one he hasn't considered your feelings so don't spend a minute thinking about his just go for it and dump the chump
2007-01-10 12:31:22 · answer #11 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋