Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

i like my EX and i cant like him becouse my boy friend whants us to get married bvut i like me EX and i whant him back but dont know what to do!!!!!! help me please

2007-01-10 05:03:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were up and down adn then i told her goodbye i loved her to mcuh to be friends....

then she tries making contact and i ignore it, she changes our status to not talkin anymore i accept it, she even makes a fake chat and i vented my anger a little bit....


anyways last night i texted her "can we talk"

I didnt get any response.... Should I just simply send her a letter/facebook message saying my feelings....

or is this a sign that she wants nothing to do with me and the more i try to contact her the further she will go away from me...


i rlly wnna tell her im not mad and i wnna be in her life still

2007-01-10 05:02:07 · 18 answers · asked by zach b 1 in Singles & Dating

surgury. on what idk i think hips he said it was new joints. but he didn't want to talk to me bout it. he isn't planin on gettin it done b/c he is scared. he was drunk while tellin what he did but now hes made at me and won't talk to me! he has repetlively broken my heart and i don't trust him so he is hurt b/c i don't wanna see him. ik he has needed this surgury and he has really no one to talk to, he is really depressed and lonely. i quess my question is do i talk to him or just forget him ik how he is and how bad this could end! what should i do?

2007-01-10 05:02:07 · 2 answers · asked by porkey_jrabbit 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiances last name is Bluntschly, but both of his parents have past. Does anyone know where it originated from?

2007-01-10 05:02:02 · 5 answers · asked by DamondlovesMegan 1 in Family

i have a few questions about my life and my future if that is ok.
I am engaged to a wonderful man and i am wondering if that is who i am meant to be with?
Am i going to be expecting a baby anytime soon? me and my fiance have been trying for a few months, and if there is no hope of getting pregnant soon, there is no point in trying because i continuously get drained and hurt each month i find out that i am not pregnant.
Am i going to move out of my house soon? i am having many family problems and i wonder if there is hope of me moving out soon?
When am i going to get married?
Will my parents be financially supportive or me and my decisions?
I just got a new job, is this job going to take me forward in life? will i keep this job for a while?
I am fixing to start my second semester of college and i have no idea what i am supposed to do with my life career wise, do you have any idea?
If my fiance is not the man i am supposed to end up with can you give me the name of the man i will end up with?
am i going to live a long healthy life? how am i going to die and how old will i be?

one more thing,
is someone watching over me?
when my grandfather died it seemed as if a part of me died as well and i keep the cross from his casket hanging in my room in rememberence of him. ever since he died, i often find my door closing on its own, my light gets turned off & on and my stereo goes off and on and the volume changes as well. my surround sound on the tv downstairs will randomly go off when i am watching tv. after he died i started listening to more depressing music that often talked about drinking and drugs and violence, and it seemed that everytime i listened to that sort of music, my stereo would get changed to country music(country music was his favorite type of music) is this my grandfather watching over me? does he know that it scares me when he does these things? how can i get him to be more discrete and not mess around with my things? if it is not my grandfather and someone is watching over me, who is it? and how can i get them to leave me alone?

thank you,
brande

2007-01-10 05:01:55 · 2 answers · asked by Brande 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I meet this girl about a week ago at a nutrition store. I want to go back in sometime soon to ask her out. Any suggestions on how I can tell her and when and what exactly to say? Nothing corny please.

2007-01-10 05:01:46 · 2 answers · asked by Mr Mister 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 05:01:09 · 13 answers · asked by john t 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

he whants a big one and so do i but i want haiwii and every thing but he whants here in Ga and i dont i whant fun things but he said not to much fun. i dont know what to do any more with him.

2007-01-10 05:00:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

theres a girl i like and she works in a diffrent department from me. She smiles at me when we pass each other, but we aint spoken yet. I managed to bump into her company email, we she be freaked out if i emailed her to say i wanna be frends but am shy of approaching her?

2007-01-10 05:00:55 · 5 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay im 15 and i was going out with this 21year old well eveything was going good until i found out that he got a another girlfriend the reason why i found out was because he has her in myspace but meanwhile i have a picture in myspace me and him kissing so what happend i called him and ask him who that and he said why do you want to now if you already now who is it and i said when was you going to tell me and he said when the right time come and he saidthat we could be friend but what hurted me the most that i said that i don't want to be friend with him when he said these world i can't believe that i cheated on my girlfriend with a little girl like me and to bad for me and i was in shocked and mad and angry and sad at the same time because this the frist time tat i got my heart boken what should i do to feel better

2007-01-10 05:00:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 04:59:47 · 24 answers · asked by john t 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

The other night after making love my bf and I were laying there naked. He got up and slapped me so hard on butt that I have his handprint with some mild bruising on my butt cheek still today. He aplogized heavily but it is very difficult for me since my last relationship was very physically abusive. I remember the abuse started out in that relationship with play going to far. He knows of my past and I really feel that he just didn't realize his own strength- but a part of me is really scared knowing that typically that is how the abuse began in other relationships. Needless to say I was nearly speechless and left immediately. He has tried to contact me but I just don't know what to do- talk it over with him - or call things off before I get hurt again. I am madly in love with him and I know that he loves me very much but I'm just concerned as to why he hit me so hard.

2007-01-10 04:59:44 · 18 answers · asked by loveguppy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you know a different language other than English.

How do you say I Love You?

2007-01-10 04:58:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

agus ta tu an amadan.

2007-01-10 04:58:23 · 3 answers · asked by carol c 1 in Friends

serious answers only plz

2007-01-10 04:58:22 · 6 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

i met someone on the internet he lives in calgary and is from pakistan originally we been talking on the phone for like a month now and i'm not sure if i should go over there and meet him i already told him i would. i'm confused and mixed up and this whole thing. we fight almost everyday on the phone and we never evenmet in person. he seems dangerous but nice at he same time. i have feelings for him i'm the kind of person that gets attached to someone fast. he says he loves me and that he would not ditch me at the airport. we both know what each other looks like. confused very confused.

2007-01-10 04:58:05 · 11 answers · asked by silkesuperfly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 04:57:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am: 30 years old - from Lebanon AND my friend is: 38 - from UK. And we do have different religion but we do like each other. But He wants to jump to a physical relation without really improving other sides in that relation like our love & friendship ….
I tried to stop this relation but it is not working will I am really afraid that he will pull me to x and that is not allowed in our family.
What to do I know he have no problem for it and he is putting too much effort on that “does not seems respecting much our traditions”

2007-01-10 04:57:47 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Friends

I know some will say "of course."

I was just a little down because there is a girl in my family who is damn near perfect.
Pretty, smart, nice job. She went to expensive private schools, went to a private college , was in a sorority.
Graduated and works in NYC as a manager in some marketing firm with a great b/f.

Does she ever make mistakes? Does she say stupid things?
Is there SOMEONE out there who does not like her?

Anybody have this kind of person in their family or as a firend?

They are kind of sickening right?
lol

I want not to be jealous....but it's hard not to.

2007-01-10 04:56:43 · 21 answers · asked by Taffina_Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

NOT say that...because most people 51% do not stay married...and where i live some people have been married 3 times..some leave for better reasons than others... but they still leave...cuz you aren't suppose to stay if SOMEONE BECOMES ABUSIVE, AN ALCOHOLIC, OR A DRUG PERSON OR WHATEVER THE REASON...SOME people said.."i would NEVER LEAVE MY HUSBAND..."..YES YOU WOULD IF HE CHEATED ON YOU OR THE ABOVE MENTIONED STUFF...plusit would not be good for the kids,,,,COMMENTS PLEASE!!!

2007-01-10 04:56:21 · 13 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am: 30 years old - from Lebanon AND my friend is: 38 - from UK. And we do have different religion but we do like each other. But He wants to jump to a physical relation without really improving other sides in that relation like our love & friendship ….
I tried to stop this relation but it is not working will I am really afraid that he will pull me to x and that is not allowed in our family.
What to do I know he have no problem for it and he is putting too much effort on that “does not seems respecting much our traditions”

2007-01-10 04:56:17 · 5 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

Last week I was thinking about attending a dance class (cha cha) that I had taken several months ago. But when I looked at my watch and saw it was too late to go. After class I asked a friend if there would have been a girl for me to partner with. He told me that a girl had been there who was new. When he told me who she was I went crazy because it was a girl I had been wanting to meet. This week I am going to the class. I don't know if I would be going otherwise since I only thought about going last week. I think the fact that she is going to be there is a big pull. I kinda like dance but am not too crazy about it. I was only thinking of going because it is the only exercise I enjoy. But like I said. Exercise might not even be a strong enough motivation to get me to the studio. I think its the girl.

2007-01-10 04:56:08 · 8 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Singles & Dating

is "my little chocoalte shake with sprinkles, whip cream, and a cherry on top" too long of a pet name to call a girl????

or wood you like it??

2007-01-10 04:52:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this boy I'm head-over-heels about at school and I've known him for almost a year. He knows I like him, and he's quite shy/quiet, meaning that I'm the only girl who likes him. In fact, the whole school knows and I think it's making him uncomfortable. I've always wondered if he likes me, too: he looks at me quite often and sometimes smiles at me. He's also REALLY nice to me and has never said anything mean about me or done anything to intentionally hurt my feelings, and sometimes he blushes when I'm around. I asked him out once (just as friends), and he said no so I?m scared to do it again. It might be because I asked him in front of his pals, though... And whenever someone asks him if he likes me, he always says no, but I know for a fact that he doesn?t like anyone else. I love him so much but I don't know what to do! Please help!

2007-01-10 04:52:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy, who offers everything I could ask for physically & emotionally, but NOT financially.Before we moved in with eachother I started escorting because I was becoming desperate for $ to pay bills.One of my biggest fears,besides marriage,is debt and poverty.My bf eventually found out and forgave me,TWICE.But it has become almost like a HEROIN addiction!You know its BAD, but you can't stop, becuz the money is SO addicting! My bf talks a lot of marriage and kids,he wants it!I am terrified of the idea.First of all I am only 19 and he is 25.Yeah I'm too young,right?I know that, but everyone still thinks of marrying that special someone.Also my mother was married 8x,I dont even know anyone that hasnt been divorced at least once(even my friends that are the same age!).My parents dont have a problem with what I do either,so it makes it even more hard to stop. I want to stop and make him happy, but I don't feel like I can right now!Love doesnt pay the bills?

2007-01-10 04:52:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it because people feel they can get away with screwing with them because they are nice?

2007-01-10 04:51:59 · 30 answers · asked by me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance was 'caught' dropping an employye's wife off. The thing is when her husband called she lied as where she was and with whom. If it was all innocent, why lie?

After this, I insisted on no contact. Two days before New Years, a text came in on his phone- that I had- 'hi honey. you were trying to call me. call me now.'

Since it did not have a name to the number, I called and asked him. He said he didn't know. I called the number the person said 'hello' I asked who it was and the person hung up. I recognised the voice so I called her husband and he confirmed that that was her new number.

My now fiance is insisting that nothing has happened between them. I am trying to just put it all behind me. But I don't know how. I don't trust him. I need to know where he is all the time. It is making him frustrated, and me even more so.

I have a four month old son, we are in the process of finding land for building a home, etc. What do I do???

2007-01-10 04:51:26 · 9 answers · asked by stacy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

and your old friends are all married or far away?maybe I'm too childish and shouldn't think of having fun?thanks

2007-01-10 04:51:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have asked questions about this subject before, but new things keep happening. Long story short, I stupidly opened my hubby a myspace account, thinking it was harmless. WRONG WRONG WRONG! I kept having a nagging feeling (which turned out to be right) that not all his conversations were innocent. I looked at his messages and the ones with one woman from high school, were not innocent. They were both basically talking about their unhappy marriages, putting down their spouses, and my husband told her that she was hot. After I got over my shock and initial devastation, I confronted him, and we have actually discussed our marriage problems and are trying to work things out. I also sent her a message, telling her that I felt the conversations between them were inappropriate for 2 married people of the opposite sex to be having, and that they both needed to either try to work their marriages out, or get out, but that having conversations like they were, was not the way to work things out in their marriages. She responded very hatefully to me and then forwarded the messages to my husband with a note saying “LOL LOOK WHAT YOUR WIFE SENT ME. HAHAHAHA”. I couldn’t stop myself, I responded back to her and told her just what I thought of her and told her that even though she didn’t love her husband anymore and didn’t want to be with him, she was not about to get in between me and my husband. She kept responding calling me nasty names and got a mutual female friend of hers and my husbands to message him asking why his wife was so insecure and that it was childish. Me and this woman actually talked after this, and she said that she could completely see why I was upset, but that this other woman was “just a flirt and is harmless”. Well, I couldn’t help it, I checked out her profile today and she just added this comment (Obviously meant for me):

OK girls... keep your men on a leash... I guess I'm just too hot for you to handle, apparently because your fat and/or ugly... and I'm skinny, and still pretty much look like I did in High School even after having 3 kids, you think you can start **** with me... THINK AGAIN....I WON'T BACK DOWN, NEVER HAVE AND NEVER WILL ;) there is a rumor goin around that I'm a home wrecker.... Hahahahahahaha.... what a crock of ****!!!! Some stupid little twit thinks I'm after her husband.... OK FIRST OF ALL... UGHHHH NOT!!! I'M VERY MUCH TAKEN, but... if I wanted your husband/boyfriend... I'd take him!!!! LUCKY FOR YOU I DON'T .....

To me she is just proving that what I said about her, both to her and to my husband, about being a trouble maker, is true. Part of me wants to respond to her, but the ADULT in me is saying “leave it alone, she is just miserable and wants to start trouble’”

Ladies, what would you do if it were you in my place?

2007-01-10 04:50:57 · 37 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am downright ugly. Girls don't like me because I am ugly. I have a big nose, a skinny face, a long neck and balding. I am still a virgin at 33. Do I just accept the fact that I am consigned to masturbate for the rest of my life and never ever have sex. I will not pay for sex either.

2007-01-10 04:50:53 · 21 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Singles & Dating