i met someone on the internet he lives in calgary and is from pakistan originally we been talking on the phone for like a month now and i'm not sure if i should go over there and meet him i already told him i would. i'm confused and mixed up and this whole thing. we fight almost everyday on the phone and we never evenmet in person. he seems dangerous but nice at he same time. i have feelings for him i'm the kind of person that gets attached to someone fast. he says he loves me and that he would not ditch me at the airport. we both know what each other looks like. confused very confused.
2007-01-10 04:58:05 · 11 answers · asked by silkesuperfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marry a man you've never met? Marry a man who fights with you over the phone every day? Marry a man whom you suspect to be dangerous?
Try to find someone closer to home and whom you'd feel comfortable having in your home.
In short, when making decisions, if you have doubts, don't.
2007-01-10 05:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you fight all the time, and you haven't even met - why bother?? Meet someone closer to home. There's nothing wrong with meeting people online, but don't lose touch with reality. Where is this relationship going? Suppose you do meet in person, and suppose you even "click". Is either one of you prepared to move to where the other person is? If not - what would be the point of it all? There are cheaper and easier way to find thrills.
If you feel you absolutely must meet him - have him come to where you live. He can stay in a hotel and meet you in a public place where you can talk. It will be like "dating". But I would strongly recommend looking for a real-life relationship in your area (even if you use the Internet to find the potential dates).
2007-01-10 05:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are setting yourself up for failure.
Do not go anywhere to meet a strange man, I don't care if you've talked to him or not.
You can't love someone you met on a screen.
You say you fight all the time.
You are too young and immature to get into this kind of situation.
You could end up being a victim, I don't care what he promises you.
Do not be fooled, abusers have all kinds of lines to give you to convince you that everything will be okay.
You should not get hooked onto meeting men on the Internet, especially ones in different countries. This could be very dangerous.
Please end this now and don't contact him again..... this is for your own safety.
2007-01-10 05:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but are you crazy?? This is how women get killed. If you are already fighting and you've never spent time together, that's a problem. Not to mention you said he seems dangerous, that should give you your answer right there. I suggest you cut off ALL contact
2007-01-10 05:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by ntlgntbtch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oohh that doesnt sound like love at all, it just sounds like you two are just into it for the mystery and fun of meeting someone. What concerns me is that there are many desperate people wanting to come to the US and marriage is sure and an easy ticket to becoming a US citizen,,,do you really love this guy and can you trust him? I suggest dont go there-on so many levels.
2007-01-10 05:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by UR funee but looks arent evrythg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! If he seems dangerous, he IS dangerous!
Even when a guy was perfectly nice, and good, someone who's as confused as you are right now, should stay away!
Know your heart, and yourself, before you give them away in marriage.
2007-01-10 05:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be ridiculous! marry a man u haven't met in person? o-oh gurl! think a hundred times! even a million! you might end-up being a sex slave or worst...get killed afterwards by ur nice-yet-dangerous cyber boo! c'mon! use ur head not ur heart!
2007-01-10 05:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by gimonidsu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no. Not to a guy you've never met! What are you thinking??
2007-01-10 05:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a real question? If it is, the answer is obvious.
2007-01-10 05:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by thunder_dan2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not worth it.
2007-01-10 05:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by Becky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋