There's this boy I'm head-over-heels about at school and I've known him for almost a year. He knows I like him, and he's quite shy/quiet, meaning that I'm the only girl who likes him. In fact, the whole school knows and I think it's making him uncomfortable. I've always wondered if he likes me, too: he looks at me quite often and sometimes smiles at me. He's also REALLY nice to me and has never said anything mean about me or done anything to intentionally hurt my feelings, and sometimes he blushes when I'm around. I asked him out once (just as friends), and he said no so I?m scared to do it again. It might be because I asked him in front of his pals, though... And whenever someone asks him if he likes me, he always says no, but I know for a fact that he doesn?t like anyone else. I love him so much but I don't know what to do! Please help!
2007-01-10 04:52:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, he probably likes you, but if he does, he's not taking any chances by letting someone know. It must be hard enough dealing with the fact that your feelings for him are public knowledge.Secondly,It might be risky to ask him out again so soon, but keep up the flirting and look for changes in his behavior. Maybe some other time down the road he'll say yes. Finally,watch and see if he makes any more moves, because it's pretty hard to tell what he thinks of you right now
2007-01-10 04:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey well I have da some problem as you do well he is just a little shy but at times he would talk. I'v known him for abut 2 years and at once I asked him out he said yes but for some reason he just stop talking to me. When I asked him what was wrong he said that people we talking about us. But of coarse he thought it was bad but everyone thought we were a cute couple. But then again I still like him but I find da guts to tell him again. But you should tell him how you really feel but tell him in person and when your by your self with him.
2007-01-10 13:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tigger W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is alright you should respect his shy character.Try not to talk with among a lot people and not pressure him make him feel nervous and anxious.He maybe shy because all school knows about your feelings, ask him if he likes you quitely. Be friendly , stand near to him without expressing all your love (he may be scared) and wait for his response.I hope i have been helpful good luck!
2007-01-10 13:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he'll regret the missed opportunity of going out with you when he grows up. Tell him not to be so shy-because you don't bite! He's probably just nervous because he thinks he needs to know how to kiss you and all that. I'm guesing he has no experience with girls.
2007-01-10 13:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor guy...it sounds like he has a lot of insecurity issues. My bf used to be like that, it took him an entire YEAR before he came out of his shell. I dated guys in the meantime too and it made him feel bad, I regret that part, but its either patience and some coaxing or....its up to you to move on
2007-01-10 13:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋