Is it because people feel they can get away with screwing with them because they are nice?
2007-01-10 04:51:59 · 30 answers · asked by me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nice guys don't ALWAYS necessarily finish last....I've broken up with six guys...BECAUSE they weren't nice. Now, I've been with a VERY nice guy for 3 years. He opens doors for me, makes me soup if I'm sick, helps me with my college assignments, etc. Guys just tend to go for women that play hard to get or just aren't interested in them. The nice guys don't play hard to get, so the woman doesn't see the challenge. Therefore, they'd rather go for a guy that will be a challenge in the relationship. However, I prefer stability in my relationship....not just a fun "cat and mouse" game. Therefore, I chose the nice guy. ^_^
2007-01-10 04:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by julesprincipessa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life, it's not enough to be nice. You must disregard your naivete and become accustomed to the realities of life. People lie and people cheat. They can be cunning and completely dishonest. A man must not allow himself to be made a fool of, and a woman must know the difference between love and lust.
Love that is not freely given is not real, and we need to understand this. When a deal looks too good to be true, it's probably a scam. No matter how in love we are, we must let go when we're not being loved in return. These are things that go beyond being nice; and when we lack this understanding, we finish last.
2007-01-10 05:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't always finish last but the other not so nice guys do what ever it takes to get ahead like cheating and lying.We try to do whats right and we get burned for it.
2007-01-10 05:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice Guys Don't Finish Last!!!!! It just seems like......The Best is aways Last......Have you heard of the old saying.......Saving the Best for Last? Well, It's true......Just stay Nice and you will end up being First once you receive the best......
What is first is last and what is last is first......The Holy Bible!!!! I am sorry, but I don't know which Version.....I believe it's NIV.
2007-01-10 05:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the woman really should get to finish first, and if the guy is nice he will finish last.
2007-01-10 05:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of women interpret nice guys as wimps and pussy wihipped. When in fact, nice guys are courteous, caring, loving and giving. It's just that alot of women are only worried about themselves, they are mostly just takers and they think if it comes easy that the (nice guy) guy is a wimp, pushover and very passive. It's not worth lowering yourself to be an ***, but it really makes you want to be just to verify this theory. Only a theory, but that's what I believe it is.
2007-01-10 05:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think with nice guys they don't find a girl till it is that perfect girl. From my own experience I would go on a date with a nice guy but if he wasn't perfect I would move on and end up dating a jerk for longer than I did the nice guy. Girls need the excitement and drama till they find the perfect one.
2007-01-10 04:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by #1techfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply be sufferer. im a woman that hasnt fallen for the jerk variety and am ready round for a quality man, however quality men arent continually the first-rate both. Just be sufferer, and the man or woman if you want to love you for who you're will come alongside. except, when you get all of the women now, you can also end up a jerk. so allow existence take its path, and dont suppose the stereotype that every one women wish a nasty boy. motive its now not actual.
2016-09-03 19:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by penaloza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the other people in the world are not as nice. They want to get ahead in the world any way that they can.
2007-01-10 04:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by sim_maroon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nice hasn't got anything to with finishing first or last. Its the attitude and smartness that counts.
2007-01-10 04:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by skepty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋