Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

He says I knew he looked at this stuff but he told me all he was looking at was the dirty cartoons. Now I find he's checking out all the porno stuff and all kinds of naked women. I understand men do these things but when he's been locked in a room looking at this stuff and IMing women then comes to our bed wanting sex I feel dirty. Is this wrong? I love him but I can't feel comfortable and or sexy this way. Is this wrong of me? I feel ugly and useless because I'm not getting any younger. I don't think I'm ugly but I don't look like those sexy hot momas on the net. Someone please give me some advice. I tried talking to him but he doesn't seem to listen.

2007-01-10 04:50:29 · 5 answers · asked by rose v 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 04:49:05 · 9 answers · asked by sexyblackchic80 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom asked me this and i have no idea how to answer..lol

2007-01-10 04:47:41 · 11 answers · asked by crzymomcm 2 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy met on a cruise. we hung out since day one, but i never really noticed him until the 4th night. the 4th night we hung out the whole entire night just me and him talking about everything. and then he made it a point to make sure we were hanging out the next night. by the end of the 4th night we had layed together, and hooked up as well. he slept over that night, and the next night we hung out again. at one point he was in the casino, and my friend went to the casino and asked him to come hang out with us. sure enough, he came within 10 minutes and we hung out. me and him went to his room to be alone and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening in the moment. it was great, but he didn't talk much. after we had sex we walked to my room, and he was about to come in but his cousin walked past us, and asked if we wanted to go to the casino. so we went to the casino, and then i left to go lay down. he told me he'd come back, and he did to sleepover. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him i was with another guy (which i wasn't). he supposedly got upset and didn't hang out with me the next two nights. i told him that i wasn't with another guy and everything got cleared up, and we hung out again. the whole entire night, me, him, and my best friend hung out. then my friend left with some guy, and me and this guy ended up hooking up again, and everything led to sex again happening in the moment. this time he talked a lot more, and he told me he wanted to do it with me for a long time. he constantly asked me if i was alright, and we acted like a couple, having a cute relationship. the next night we hung out the whole night and kissed goodbye. after the cruise he messaged me right away on myspace, and we kept messaging eachother back and forth until about october. i had visited him and he acted the same exact way he did on the cruise and he kissed me goodbye on the lips and everything. when i stepped outside for a minute, some guy even asked this guy where his girlfriend went. haha. at one point i thought this guy had been avoiding me because the computer does crazy things, so i messaged him and i was like..if you don't want anything to do with me..please don't write back..but he did write back explaining how of course we're still friends and he doesn't have a girlfriend. i happen to be going to college where he lives in august which was planned before i even met him. but now it's been 5 months after the cruise, and he just got a girlfriend. i have no intentions of breaking them up at all. it's only normal to move on, we live far away and can't be together.

do you think he really liked me a lot? or do you think he was using me?
and if you think he was using me..can you please tell me why

p.s. i know cruises are supposed to be fun and not serious, but this was different, and i didn't ever give him head or anything

2007-01-10 04:47:16 · 21 answers · asked by jess p 1 in Singles & Dating

If your boyfriend who has been acting strangely uses a different email to talk to an old friend and hasnt mentioned me yet in this rekindling of a friendship? He has told her to use his alternate email and talk to him on MSN messenger... (he normally uses AIM) and has said "I've always Liked you, _____"(her name.)
Am i just being paranoid?

2007-01-10 04:47:13 · 11 answers · asked by libertyzera 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 7 yrs and been maried for 1 yr.I want us to be closer in every way.How would you describe the perfect wife?Please give me some tips for a great marriage and a happy husband.Thanks!

2007-01-10 04:47:04 · 18 answers · asked by julie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we are getting married next year & are planning to go on our honeymoon at the end of July beining of Aug for 14 days, we have different ideas of where & what we like to do.

As for my partner he would like to go to paris / orlando / germany etc, has he likes history & to have fun at the thame parks as well (belongs it's not to hot).

As for me just a nice relaxing holiday by a beach or a villa with your own pool but not to hot, don't mind exploring some history, like thame parks.

i am really strugging for ideas so any surguestion would be very greatful.

2007-01-10 04:46:59 · 11 answers · asked by sparkle1 2 in Weddings

2007-01-10 04:46:32 · 9 answers · asked by Humpy 3 in Singles & Dating

I already bought the darn bridesmaid dress and the bride and I had a falling out. I want the $130 back and I have to be graceful as the bride is my boyfriend's cousin. Help!

2007-01-10 04:45:49 · 11 answers · asked by JTJC 1 in Weddings

my bloke came home from work , he said he was going to the pub at 5 for a drink, i work from home and finish at 5 so he asked if i wanted to go , when i said i did he looked at me funny, he has gone there withnhis mate.
anyway he popped out to get his mate and said he was coming back to get me, when i just rang him his already in the pub with out me, so i just shouted down the phone charming and he said i'm coming to get you now so i said don't bother . is it me or is that wrong

2007-01-10 04:45:49 · 54 answers · asked by hayley b 1 in Singles & Dating

That is the ultimate question. I know that sometimes people get
jealous, when they see others who have a persona, that they
wish they had. Or if they are not getting the attention, that they
think they deserve. There is this woman, at a bookstore, who
works there. She is beautiful, indeed. A very voluptuos woman,
strong sexual energy, with an attitude. I have been watching
her, and she has been watching me. Catch is, she doe not like
it when I fellowship with other ladies, in the store. She walks
past me, like a child, and gives me that look. Once she even
had, a slight frown on her face. When I am alone, just reading,
she smiles, faintly. And the other day, she looked me square
in the eye, and walked right passed me. A pssionate gaze,
if you will. Now I think she is taken, but what does it matter
to her. Given her body language, she is an animal. So I am
asking specifically the ladies. What is up with her ? And what
is she saying to me ?

2007-01-10 04:45:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He or she could be your husband, boyfriend, wife, girlfriend or just a friend.

2007-01-10 04:44:44 · 12 answers · asked by BraTiNeLa14 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that love seems to be the solution to all the problems in the world?

When someone is not in love, problems seem so overwhelming...while when you fall in love, the biggest problem seems very tiny and you seem to be able to deal with everything that life brings along better....

Is this true? And if it is, why is that?

2007-01-10 04:44:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think i really like this guy, weve acknowledged eachother but im not totally sure he also likes me.

2007-01-10 04:44:32 · 11 answers · asked by Eye of the Beholder 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 8 onths pregnant and my husband and i are seperated, his choice, he clames he loves me but hes not in love with me, so after he moved out i asked him if he wanted a divorce and he said that if i needed to file for finacial reason ( i have a house and business) thats fine but otherwise no. So i asked him how he thought things wer going to be with the baby and us." he says he sees himself as being a great father and a friend to me, and that other than that he doesn't know. So i don't get it, if he doesn't love me than why does he not want a divorce? He claimes he cares about me so much but can not be the man i need him to be right now. should i be there for him, not be there for him?

2007-01-10 04:44:02 · 17 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been a wonderful relationship for a year and two months with a wonderful woman. Over this past time, we have had our share of ups and downs but, we've always managed to pull through. Today my g/f tells me that she wants to seperate for a while because she is stressed out. We've always been able to talk things out when it comes to this but, today she seems determined to end it all. We have a family(her 3 kids) and we all live together. I don't want this to end and tear our family apart. I fear that if we seperate, then the relationship will end. I feel that God brought us together and this far and now she feels that God had nothing to do with it(this is after the fact we both agreed that it wasn't fate but God that brought us together). When she get stressed out, she tends to say some harsh things. I love her immensly and want to help her deal with her stresses better. There is a age difference between us(9yrs.) but, I don't think that's a issue. What should I do? hlp plz

2007-01-10 04:43:55 · 5 answers · asked by jaymil1979 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My two best frineds are both 15, the've had sex loads in the past 2 months. They use condoms but i'm worried that she'll get pregnant some how. But i can't voice this worry to them. THe've been going out a year and a bit. But knows she's gettig stuck up bout it

2007-01-10 04:43:48 · 7 answers · asked by Cute little penguin 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a wonderful girlfriend, but i dont think she tells me the truth all the time. I have a ex who i never trusted, but she never did anything to hurt me like my current gg. i love my gf but my ex still like me. ill tell you something i don't like about either one of them. my ex never gave me her house number and still desn't want me to have it. sound suspicious? and my current gf claims to have only "guy friends" but she has way too many of them for them all to be just friends, even her "bestfriend" sends her pictures of his body and stuff. but i love my gf and in a way i feel like i have cheated on her. ihave flirted with other girls and let them touch my dik and i have grabbed their butts but we have never done anything serious. i never did any of this to my ex and we fought all the time. but she still likes me and i still like her. but i made a vow to never do anything like that to her again. i love her but i have feelings for my ex. what should i do?

2007-01-10 04:43:15 · 15 answers · asked by IisIam 3 in Singles & Dating

I have noticed in responses to other peoples questions and (even in my own) that if you have a bad relationship or a problem in it, that people say go get a degree.
Now degrees are great for many things and I figure a psychology dgree is great if you are going into relationship therapy. But what does a degree have to do with a crazy bf or a crazy baby mama?
Are we assuming if people have problems it is b/c they are uneducated?
I have a degree and I have a strange relationship but it won;t help with issues related to crazy daddy.
What's really going on?

2007-01-10 04:42:58 · 3 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Singles & Dating

For some reason my penis always arches to the left like really far though, like its aiming north-west I mean its really wierd, ive seen pornos but I cant really tell if its normal.

2007-01-10 04:42:46 · 15 answers · asked by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 04:42:43 · 3 answers · asked by krish 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 04:42:00 · 25 answers · asked by nayiya'smyworld 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend was "about" to feel me out down there, then he chickened out, why did he chicken out?

2007-01-10 04:41:43 · 7 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

some people at work are mean on purpose and then get so nice I guess they're sorry about it but I'm getting tired of if, should I stop talking to them?I think so but maybe it's not professional

2007-01-10 04:41:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Are sit down dinners too....stuffy?

I'm totally torn between a sit down dinner & a buffet. We are having hors d'ourvres, then dinner. With the sit down dinner you have better food options (at least where I'm getting married, that's not a general statement). The buffet actually turns out being more expensive than the sit down meal as well.

I just don't want to give off a "this is formal, act like it" feeling & I want people to go away happy.

I'm open to opinions. Thanks in advance.

2007-01-10 04:41:01 · 20 answers · asked by layla983 5 in Weddings

guys in my new school r troubling me a lot pass comments n give me gushy notes writing that they love me i m not use to it as i was studying in girls school earlier i ask my friends that why does the guys do this although i have never even talk to them or even look at any of them then they say bcoz u r extremely beautiful thats why they do it its affecting my studies as i m a topper of my class.

2007-01-10 04:39:31 · 17 answers · asked by a rodd fan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 19. That's only a 3 year difference, but he's into way more mature stuff that I am. I'm just starting to get into making out and stuff, and he says he's ready to have sex. I don't feel comfortable around him anymore. I always feel like he's gonna ask me about sex and I don't feel comfortable with that topic. I don't know how to tell him. I'm not a very forward person. I just don't know what to do. I love him very much, but I feel like he's rushing this, I mean we've only been going out for 5 months. I don't know what to do. :'(

2007-01-10 04:39:14 · 11 answers · asked by Juliana P 1 in Singles & Dating

i can not tell lie and hate it, but when i see how easy all guys tell a lie and try to decieve girls , my heart break.
when i see that a guy says he is trustful and act oppisite , i just cry.why?why do you guys feel that you can be succeed by this behavior?
every time i trusted a guy he showed his real inside.I am happy that my God always help me to feel it, but im tired of it and feel alone so much.
im a beautiful girl and secceed in my life and dont feel that im very weak, no i just want to tell you guys that be honest with your life and dont wast your times by being a lier.you guys, just lose the good girls and it is too bad.
when the guy i knew returned to me after i l had left him for his lies, i could not accept him, why , because he had enough time for being trust as he saw my trust to him.
i have some advices to you guys, please be honest and be a man when you promise sth to a girl, please try to support her by your love , then you would see the best life.

2007-01-10 04:38:55 · 4 answers · asked by Elham 2 in Singles & Dating

what would be a sweet thing to say to a girl ? or txt her smthin sweet?

we talk every day n stuff just want smthin new ?
smthin yall consider sweet!

2007-01-10 04:38:27 · 15 answers · asked by LeonZe 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont know somebodys do gay marrage what do in home r they injoy each other like two common marriage(female with male)) how much they r together ...pls say anything that you know thanks

2007-01-10 04:38:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce