Why is it that love seems to be the solution to all the problems in the world?
When someone is not in love, problems seem so overwhelming...while when you fall in love, the biggest problem seems very tiny and you seem to be able to deal with everything that life brings along better....
Is this true? And if it is, why is that?
2007-01-10 04:44:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've noticed that when i was in love, the biggest problem didn't burden me as much as it did when i am alone...
2007-01-10 04:50:22 · update #1
If we'd allow love to make all of our decisions, the world might not be perfect, but it would be a much better place to live.
2007-01-10 04:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just human nature to want to love and be loved back. We all have a need to belong somewhere and when we find someone who loves us just as much and only us, we feel like we're on top of the world. However, this isn't true for everyone. Some people do place an emphasis on love... others may place an emphasis on money or some kind of other thing. Either way, when we feel like we have someone else in our lives who we can share things with, the burden just seems to be lifted off and less stressful.
2007-01-10 12:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon X 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is priceless and wonderful. The experience I have is that love can complicate things as well as make life a bit brighter.
I was married for 28 years and I still love my ex. I found that once I started to love myself and put myself first that things took on a new meaning. I realized that no one can make my problems more or less other than myself. I also realized that I can let go of the problems by not obsessing over them. Things seem to have a way of working themselves out. Worrying is a waste of time. I just take things one day at a time and letting tomorrow take care of itself. Good Luck
2007-01-10 12:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because when you are in love with someone you can share the burden of problems. This is part of the seeking of a partner. When that partner lets you down you make the decision of is it so bad that I must seek another. One does this till one finds that person that provides all that you want and doesn`t let you down.
Husband and wife become family. Together they can divide labor and tackle problems as one. The family becomes an organization and grows.
good question
2007-01-10 13:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by Gone Rogue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's true because you arent paying any attention to anything. It seems like you can just handle everything but that's not the way it works. You need to fight love and handle problems then go back to love when you're biggest problems are solved.
2007-01-10 12:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not true at all- i guess to some people being in love if there is a problem you have help taking the burden off, and a distraction, but love doesn't make the problems go away and in fact if you don't deal with the problems, the problems will eventually drive love away- it IS a vicious circle- who needs it?
2007-01-10 12:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by shannon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is the reason y is because when u in love it is like something heavy has been lift up of ur back. u see everything in a different point of view. the world doesn't matter that much to u anymore except ur boyfriend. and the idea that u have someone next to u make u feel that u can overcome and conquer everything obstacles that come ur way.
2007-01-10 12:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God is love; so yes, that is the solution. When someone is in love and not problems can seem so over whelming and when you fall in love your blinded because it's fresh but when that wears off if your not prepared for the problems of the world and relationships then yes it will seem like it's hard to deal with. so olong as you have God in your heart then you can concore all in the name of Love remember God is love.
2007-01-10 12:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats one of the best ?s i have seen on here i guess the real answer to it is that when your in love nothing else in the world really matters as much. I was in love till she left me for someone else now the slightest problem makes me feel like ****. but when i was with her i could handle anything that life through at me.
2007-01-10 13:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by lilpimptk101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is better when you have someone that loves you. You'd have someone to support you in all the good and bad stuff that happens to you. Everyone should feel loved.
2007-01-10 12:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by happy_crazy_in_love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋