I've been a wonderful relationship for a year and two months with a wonderful woman. Over this past time, we have had our share of ups and downs but, we've always managed to pull through. Today my g/f tells me that she wants to seperate for a while because she is stressed out. We've always been able to talk things out when it comes to this but, today she seems determined to end it all. We have a family(her 3 kids) and we all live together. I don't want this to end and tear our family apart. I fear that if we seperate, then the relationship will end. I feel that God brought us together and this far and now she feels that God had nothing to do with it(this is after the fact we both agreed that it wasn't fate but God that brought us together). When she get stressed out, she tends to say some harsh things. I love her immensly and want to help her deal with her stresses better. There is a age difference between us(9yrs.) but, I don't think that's a issue. What should I do? hlp plz
2007-01-10 04:43:55 · 5 answers · asked by jaymil1979 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think she's being completely honest with you. She probably wants out of the relationship but doesn't want to hurt you. Talk with her. Tell her you want the truth.
2007-01-10 04:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is she stressed out about? I would start there. Tell her that seperating would only make things worse and that you don't want to seperate the family. There may be an underlying excuse for her wanting to seperate. Talk to her.
2007-01-10 13:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it seems to me, too, that she is not giving you all details.
Hearing this saddens me and I hope you guys will be okay.
It's been just a very weird time to so many people I know. God bless us all.
2007-01-10 13:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by december_changes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she wants to end it all .. their my be some one else . people do not just up and say , you know what I want to be by my self now .. just let her know that you love her and the kids and will do any thing to keep it all together , but it will be her finaly words that count ..
2007-01-10 13:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunelty, this is out of your hands. Just make sure she knows you love her and would do anything for her!!
2007-01-10 12:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋