If your boyfriend who has been acting strangely uses a different email to talk to an old friend and hasnt mentioned me yet in this rekindling of a friendship? He has told her to use his alternate email and talk to him on MSN messenger... (he normally uses AIM) and has said "I've always Liked you, _____"(her name.)
Am i just being paranoid?
2007-01-10 04:47:13 · 11 answers · asked by libertyzera 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One possibility is that you have been very controlling in general that he has to do things behind your back. Other than that, I think you totally have the right to be suspecious.
2007-01-10 04:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by wonderbar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not being paranoid. tell him to be up front. if he wants to communicate with her behind your back , give him your blessing, but it will be without you in his life.
Give him a choice don't make it sound like an ultimatum.
If he is being honest he will let you know up front, so that you can both get on with your lives.
he should be spending time with you , not trying to rekindle an old relationship.
Rekindle to me means more than friends, by the way.......
2007-01-10 12:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've like many people (mostly women) but like is not love. People of different or same sex can be good friends and it has nothing to do with love.
Until the word "love" comes into view, I wouldn't worry too much. When you and make a stance with viable proof, don't bother.
2007-01-10 12:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is doing all this behind your back - that is wrong. If all was just innocent, he would be open about the whole thing.
You are not being paranoid.
2007-01-10 12:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not being paranoid my boyfriend would be hearing my mouth all damn day about that he acting like he got something to hide or something. then he said he's always liked her oh we would have a straight problem. you need to check him but kinda act like it don't bother you.
2007-01-10 12:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no u have concerns to be worried if he has asked too use that certain email then he is doing something in the wrong or he wouldn't have asked her to use that certain email...u have every right too be concerned
2007-01-10 12:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Constance♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds shadey to me. Ask him about it and see how he reacts. If he jumps on the defensive, maybe he's hiding something.
2007-01-10 12:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, be concerned. Something is happening here that he doesn't want you to know about.
2007-01-10 12:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not concerned, but you might want to be.
2007-01-10 12:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be very aware
2007-01-10 12:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋