Boyfriend troubles...?

Question

I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 19. That's only a 3 year difference, but he's into way more mature stuff that I am. I'm just starting to get into making out and stuff, and he says he's ready to have sex. I don't feel comfortable around him anymore. I always feel like he's gonna ask me about sex and I don't feel comfortable with that topic. I don't know how to tell him. I'm not a very forward person. I just don't know what to do. I love him very much, but I feel like he's rushing this, I mean we've only been going out for 5 months. I don't know what to do. :'(

Answer 1

He just want sex , believe me, don't give him the impression that you are easy. He's older, you have time on your side, take it easy, or else you would be just another notch on his belt.
5 months is nothing , you should put more emphasis on your books to make yourself an independent woman.

Answer 2

You need to be honest and tell him you are not going to be ready for a sexual relationship for a long time.
it is only fair for him to know up front.
If you tell him and he still pressures you, it is time he moves on, as he is not respecting where you are in your morality.
You do not do something because you are pressured into it, you will regret it.
Now a days, people are having sex too young and they are not ready for the emotional part of it.. They are immature and haven't grown up, although they think they are.
Sexual relations are a very complicated issue and girls want to be in love with a partner, while guys are more detached and just want to perform the act.
be very careful. he is too old for you anyway, you should be dating someone around your age.
You are right, he is much more mature than you and he should realize that you are not ready for it.

Answer 3

I know it's only 3 years difference in age, but you are too young to be with someone of age. If he's pressuring you, don't give in. There is plenty of time for sex when you get older. Enjoy your youth, because when it's gone you can never get it back. I wish you luck, and just hold on to what you believe.

Answer 4

if you feel he is pressuring you into something you are not ready for then he's not the guy for you. If he loves you he would drop the subject until you felt ready... either way, don't feel like you have to have sex with him... wait till you are ready, if he loves you he'll understand, if not... move on.
Good Luck!

Answer 5

Be up front about not being ready for sex. I know you have feelings for him but you must make sure he respects you. If he pressures you still about it or he just leaves you b/c you won't put out, then you know he didn't respect you.

Answer 6

Just say No. if he's any sort of decent guy he will respect your decision and will be there when you are ready. dont throw your virginity away if your not sure it will never happen again and you want to remember your first time as being special not a mistake

Answer 7

You should def. talk to him about it, and if he really loves you and is not just trying to get some, he will let it go for awhile, if he still pressures you then you should break up with him, or else you'll wind up doing something your not ready for. : )

Answer 8

my boyfriend and i have a 2 year age difference and he is always talking about sex and stuff like that. i'm usaully just like no. he'll then ask me what and i'll just tell him that he knows what. we just joke about it and he respects my boundries. this guys hsould respect yours too. if he cant then you shouldn't be with him.

Answer 9

You are worth waiting for Hon. Tell him you are not ready yet. If he really loves you, he will respect your wishes and not push you.

Answer 10

He's gotta understand your needs not just his. Guys never understand what a girl wants and you can just make him... be evil... MWHAHAHAHAHA