I know some will say "of course."
I was just a little down because there is a girl in my family who is damn near perfect.
Pretty, smart, nice job. She went to expensive private schools, went to a private college , was in a sorority.
Graduated and works in NYC as a manager in some marketing firm with a great b/f.
Does she ever make mistakes? Does she say stupid things?
Is there SOMEONE out there who does not like her?
Anybody have this kind of person in their family or as a firend?
They are kind of sickening right?
lol
I want not to be jealous....but it's hard not to.
2007-01-10 04:56:43 · 21 answers · asked by Taffina_Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Duh Monty. I said I was jealous. I love her she is my family, but I feel so inferior around her at family get togethers and such. Like I should be where she is in life.
2007-01-10 05:08:56 · update #1
Girl I feel ya'.
My ex, WHO I dumped, is with someone like this.
From a rich family, cute, has everything going for her.
I was real jealous at first, then I realized what others are saying, nobody is perfect. Usually these high achiever types are control freaks.
You need to make your own mark in your own way.
2007-01-10 05:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is no more perfect than you. Most whom come off as perfect usually have some very serious problems, debt or relationship or even poor confidence. There is no such thing as perfect person. I can guarantee someone doesn't like her, she has said stupid things, I'm sure she makes tons of mistakes. She just happens to appear to have a wonderful life on the outside, but remember the grass is rarely greener on the other side.
2007-01-10 13:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dissolvo Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though she may seem that way, there is no such thing as a perfect person. Yes, they have bad days, and bad sides. If it will make you feel any better. Even the most "perfect" person has something about their self that they do not like.
2007-01-10 13:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural to feel that way. And yes, she does make mistakes. She is just the type of person that isn't going to let anybody know that!
I know a person like that, and I actually used to wish I was more like her. Turns out that behind closed doors, her life was very very far from perfect. It was the exact opposite.
Don't be so hard on yourself!
2007-01-10 13:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by Allison 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. Trust me, if you listen to her long enough she will eventually say something seriously, seriously stupid! Then you can laugh at her and it'll make you feel better. That's the right thing to do!
And nobody's perfect so you shouldn't be jealous of her. She's probably seriously snobby and just wants to make others think that she's so perfect.
2007-01-10 13:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by kisses1591 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ONE is perfect and for the peopel that say they are they need to get over themselves
everyone has a flaw, or a weakness
I'm sure someone hates this girl you can't go thru life and never piss off anyone
its ok to be jealous at least you admit it
2007-01-10 13:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by *Fool in the Rain* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't be jealous. there are NO "perfect people", and every human being has a "downside". i have no doubt that you have skills and talents that the other girl wishes she had. everyone, especially young females, feels insecure sometimes. do what you do best and don't worry about your family member. someday you will probably find out something about her that will surprise you about her "perfection". besides that, people who seem "perfect" on the outside have a big mess going on inside!!! take my word for it, i've been in the same situation.
2007-01-10 13:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by mamaru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is perfect even if they seem like they are. Everyone makes mistakes, everyone does something stupid once in a while. Everyone has problems. Don't pay so much attention her, since its obviously got you bothered. Be more concerned with yourself and becoming a better person.
2007-01-10 13:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by Neon Ballroom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT PERSON. Sounds more like you are JEALOUS of this person. DEAL WITH IT.
2007-01-10 13:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is that you stop looking for faults in other people and start looking at all the good in you. You may not have had a silver spoon but I am sure there are alot of qualities you have that she doesn't. Take care and Good Luck
2007-01-10 13:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋