We were up and down adn then i told her goodbye i loved her to mcuh to be friends....
then she tries making contact and i ignore it, she changes our status to not talkin anymore i accept it, she even makes a fake chat and i vented my anger a little bit....
anyways last night i texted her "can we talk"
I didnt get any response.... Should I just simply send her a letter/facebook message saying my feelings....
or is this a sign that she wants nothing to do with me and the more i try to contact her the further she will go away from me...
i rlly wnna tell her im not mad and i wnna be in her life still
2007-01-10 05:02:07 · 18 answers · asked by zach b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well thanks for responding, if she doesnt reply in a little I am going to send her a facebook message and tell her how I feel... So im not always going to live in regret, or wondering...
I truthfully just want friendship and i love her as a ffriend now...
2007-01-10 06:02:36 · update #1
I think she still likes you or she wouldn't have made contact with you.. she is prob. paying you back for ignoring her... tell her no more games lets resolve this. Tell her what you said "you really want her not to be mad at you and you still want her in your life". Let her know that you love her too much to be friends and you want to work it out as bf/gf... if that's what you want... if not, tell her you do care for her and want to keep a friendship..
2007-01-10 05:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away and do not look back if you dont it will go on and on. I swear Ive been going through it for the last 4 months and it officially ended yesterday, SERIOUSLY! I am hurt but at the same time relieved b/c I dont have to wonder anymore and I can do what I plz and is feels good not to be thinking about that same **** wondering and hoping and not being sure if you want it. The hell with it, Life is too short.
2007-01-10 13:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how this feels. Especially because my first love wants nothing to do with me.
I say ignore her for a bit but if she talks to you talk back but not too much, keep her waiting.
She'll most likely feel that you moved on and realize that she wants to be in your life again or she might try and move on.
Try and talk to her every now and then but avoid conversations that might hit a nerve ya know?
Once, you get back on the friend level then suggest talking about what happened.
If she says no, then leave it at that. At least you guys will become friends again.
Don't try to argue it out of her. You want to be her friend. =] Good luck!
2007-01-10 13:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its time u move on obviously she doesn't want nothing to do with u or she would have texted u back. U need to move on and find someone else and stop wasting ur time on her when there are plenty of girls out there that are single and just waiting for a guy like u to come around.
2007-01-10 13:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by sweety_8620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her. I was in the kind of situation too before. And after I told him my feelings we got back together. It lasted a year but we had our differences and split up and were still good friends. But if you dont tell her your always gonna have the thought in your mind "what if I would of told her?" And believe me those "what if's" are a headache.Good luck!
2007-01-10 13:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Steph. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree w/ mamaru's answer. from the looks of it, she doesnt want things to get serious nor does she want you to think that you can get back together so she's trying to create more distance. it takes discipline & it'll friggen sting like h e l l but you gotta let the girl go. seriously the more you try the more it may repel her....& you DEFINATELY dont want someone 2b w/ you b/c they feel sorry 4 you.
2007-01-10 13:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously learning to get over you dont persue it unless you want a relationship again or you will end up n the same predicament
2007-01-10 13:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in ur SAME position exactly , here is what i did !!
i send her an email with all my feelings in and then decided if she doesnt reply i'll forget her completly , she didnt reply and i really did forget her this day !! just get what ever u wanna say outta ur system.
2007-01-10 13:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by OB5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem like a nice, sensitive guy...go on and find someone who deserves you. it sounds to me like you're being played. she will probably try to contact you at some point when she's lonely or gets dumped by a new boyfriend. try not to respond, she's using you to boost her own ego, and will only hurt you time and time again.
2007-01-10 13:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by mamaru 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and move on. You two are playing a game back and forth and it needs to end.
2007-01-10 13:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋