me and this guy met on a cruise. we hung out since day one, but i never really noticed him until the 4th night. the 4th night we hung out the whole entire night just me and him talking about everything. and then he made it a point to make sure we were hanging out the next night. by the end of the 4th night we had layed together, and hooked up as well. he slept over that night, and the next night we hung out again. at one point he was in the casino, and my friend went to the casino and asked him to come hang out with us. sure enough, he came within 10 minutes and we hung out. me and him went to his room to be alone and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening in the moment. it was great, but he didn't talk much. after we had sex we walked to my room, and he was about to come in but his cousin walked past us, and asked if we wanted to go to the casino. so we went to the casino, and then i left to go lay down. he told me he'd come back, and he did to sleepover. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him i was with another guy (which i wasn't). he supposedly got upset and didn't hang out with me the next two nights. i told him that i wasn't with another guy and everything got cleared up, and we hung out again. the whole entire night, me, him, and my best friend hung out. then my friend left with some guy, and me and this guy ended up hooking up again, and everything led to sex again happening in the moment. this time he talked a lot more, and he told me he wanted to do it with me for a long time. he constantly asked me if i was alright, and we acted like a couple, having a cute relationship. the next night we hung out the whole night and kissed goodbye. after the cruise he messaged me right away on myspace, and we kept messaging eachother back and forth until about october. i had visited him and he acted the same exact way he did on the cruise and he kissed me goodbye on the lips and everything. when i stepped outside for a minute, some guy even asked this guy where his girlfriend went. haha. at one point i thought this guy had been avoiding me because the computer does crazy things, so i messaged him and i was like..if you don't want anything to do with me..please don't write back..but he did write back explaining how of course we're still friends and he doesn't have a girlfriend. i happen to be going to college where he lives in august which was planned before i even met him. but now it's been 5 months after the cruise, and he just got a girlfriend. i have no intentions of breaking them up at all. it's only normal to move on, we live far away and can't be together.
do you think he really liked me a lot? or do you think he was using me?
and if you think he was using me..can you please tell me why
2007-01-10 04:25:37 · 10 answers · asked by lindsay m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course he was using you to get some fun sex and why..? that's easy cuz YOU LET HIM ...
2007-01-10 04:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you said you were going to college where he lives....so then why did you say "we live far away and can't be together"? Seems to me like he did like you...since he got mad you were with another guy. Although, I have pretended to be mad at a girl before, I think it was to get her to suck up to me! haha oops I'm a jerk. Oh well, anyway I don't think he was using you. If he was, you never would have heard from him after the cruise. Since you have maintained some sort of communication obviously there is more to it. If you don't want to be with him, then just keep your friendship...and who cares he has a gf. If you do like him, get ready for college and start hanging out with him again!!
2007-01-10 04:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by It'sjustme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he was having a good time with you. And he enjoying the time you had together, and things happen like that. But, it was not meant to be. maybe the timing is off. right people, wrong time. he can't wait around for someone who may never come along. if you live far apart and he's not ready for the long distance thing, then he found someone who would work for him. Leave them alone. Move on.
2007-01-10 04:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Chris M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he was using youo..but ofcourse I don't know the guy personally. Sounds to me like you guys had a real nice time hanging out with each other and would you really change any of those feelings that you had at those moments..I'm sure they were great! Just be thankful for the time you shared..If you guys were meant to have anything more..I'm sure something will develop..Good luck and thanks for the short romantic story!
2007-01-10 04:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'm sorry but I think he was using you. That always happens on cruises, trust me. Guys like that go on crusies to get some and being nice was his way in. I wouldn't doubt that he had a girlfriend the whole time.
2007-01-10 04:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he was using u dont have sex until u know it is the right person, personally he probley thought that is all u wanted since u gave it up so fast.
2007-01-10 04:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by pretty girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Way tooooooooooo long!!!!! Lost interest.
2007-01-10 04:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by Starlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you had great s*x then i'd say he really liked.
also if i was you i'd cut your question length down a bit.
lol
2007-01-10 04:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you got played;why?cause we do DAT!!!
2007-01-10 04:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are stupid and so is your story
2007-01-10 04:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by superjohnson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋